PUA Bootcamp Assignments

visit our sponsor: www.ASKJDOG.com from VH1's The Pickup Artist - VIDEO Exclusive!AZ PUA Bootcamp - All Assignments (1/2) >>> mimicker: EDIT: I will be posting all the assignments in this one thread, so scroll down to see your next assignment. Good luck. ASSIGNMENT #1 ± Getting Rid of Approach Anxiety This week we will focus on simply approaching. You will have to do 36 approaches this week. It does not have to be solid game ± you can approach and then immediately eject if you want. All we are trying to do this week is get comfortable approaching, and destroy all hesitation of approach. You will be required to do three different types of approaches: indirect, neutral, and direct. You will do each of these types of openers 12 times. For indirect opener: I want you to use an opinion opener. An opinion opener is where you ask a girl's opinion on something, and have a story behind why you're asking their opinion on it. Usually, with an opinion opener your opening line is "Hey (guys), I need a -female- opinion on something..." then you immediately into your question. Or omit the "female" part if it is a set of guys and girls, and just say "Hey guys, I need an opinion on something." I want you to make up your own question and story though. No "who lies more?", "do girls think the rockstar david bowie is hot?", Style's two-part kiss opener, or any other community opinion opener. Come up with a story and some type of opinion you could get from it. You should ACTUALLY CARE about their opinion too, pick something you're honestly curious about. I¶m sure you can find one story from your life (or your friend's life) that you could base an opinion opener on. If you want help developing one, post what you got and we¶ll give you feedback on it. For neutral opener: I want you to use a complement opener or a situational opener. A complement opener is where you go up to a woman, and complement them on some article of clothing, accessory, make-up, or whatever. It isn't a . but it doesn't have to be. mom/daughter sets. deliberate. .. Quote Direct Opener . perform these openers 36 times. that is more of a direct opener.. if you want to replace the word beautiful with "adorable" or "cute" or whatever. extra large sets with 7+ people in them. It helps if the situational comment is funny. Even if you go out. It's slow. schools. Anyway. restaurants. Some examples include: moving sets..make DEEP EC for a couple of seconds . I would suggest trying out this opener after you have gotten comfortable using the other ones.turn a girl to face you .. Extra Challenge for Advanced Guys: If you care to take on an extra challenge this week.what kind of person are you?.for the above.they'll love it.. mall. For example.. this is your mission: Find a venue in which you have never approached before and do some of your 36 approaches there.. WHO CARES? Just get out there. coffee shops. you have still succeeded because you did what you set out to do. giggle. But I have never approached in: convenience stores (7/11 and such). seated sets.then while looking eye to eye say.so beautiful" (delivered slowly and deliberately using eyebrows and voice to emphasise your words) "tell me.. 99% of chicks are going to experience butterflies in their stomach and a headrush from this kind of opener. deliver your opener. sets with both guys and girls..... I have approached in: clubs..... ^---.are you friendly?" and then starting into deep and wide rapport.."I think you look.... and go from there. emotionally intense and very alpha. and get HORRIBLE reactions. or festivals/carnival etc etc etc.. department stores (like Target)..a gentle smile... For direct opener: I want you to use this opener that Desperado described on Badboy¶s forum. outside of clubs. street.complement on her physical beauty though. standing sets. A situational opener is where you comment on something in the environment.beautiful. .. go ahead. as you will need to be somewhat ³smooth´ for this one.. They'll smile. if you suck at these openers.. boyfriend/girlfriend sets. Another challenge is to find sets that you have never approached before for whatever reason. grocery stores. dad/daughter sets. . Also has some considerations about false time constraints to think about. Let's get started. mimicker: ASSIGNMENT #2 ± Surface Attraction This week we will concentrate on building surface or temporary attraction.. Neutral Entertaining Openers (SteviePUA) This post breaks down the structure of indirect situational openers really well.unless you're into that sort of thing. But these could serve as inspiration. Mostly opinion openers. Remember that for the bootcamp you are going to need to come up with and use a UNIQUE opener. and moving towards becoming an approach monster. I¶m going to quote Woodhaven in . The ideas in the above post were developed by me over a period of 4 months. Ideas Collection of ASF Openers (Rocker44) A fun collection of tons of ASF openers.) Mojo: For guys who need some extra inspiration. plus some other stuff. What I do for fun (Mystery) Approaching women and playing the game should be FUN.old sets with grandma¶s in them (though I wouldn't recommend going direct on the grandma sets . during which I was finally leaving behind the last vestiges of my KJism and approach anxiety. This post explains how to make it that way. Opening Theory (Mojo) This post explains how to use Juggler's 90/10 rule with your opener to draw the woman into a conversation. Rooting: The problem with the Who Lies More Opener (Style) This post explains a small but crucial distinction to take into consideration when using indirect openers. but you might find this post useful. I'm going to be replying to Mimicker's assignments each week with links to posts that address that week's bootcamp.Seduction Frames (Mojo) Not to toot my own horn. that breaks down really well the belief system of an approach machine. Moving on to the nitty gritty. For a better explanation of this. Useful Question for Devilhimself (Style) This is a short little post. Inspiration State . The very act of chasing something makes you more attracted to it. (Thus this assignment we'll be using indirect game and opinion openers . Using this sort of an opener will give you reactions to play off of." The archetype of this kind of opener is Who Lies More. If you move away from them. This week we¶ll work on C&F. you get some people saying "hell no" and some people saying "fuck yeah. Jealous GF.. Metaphorically speaking. The fun and playfulness is there because that is what sucks them into and assists them in accepting the dominant or imaginary frame you have created with the technique.one of his posts: Quote from: "Woodhaven" Attraction is highly coupled to validation. however it is what leads to the deeper pleasure based attraction. push-pull. Surface attraction created by mASF techniques is easily dissipated when a girl removes herself from the stimulus. while you feel validated. dominant frames. if you move toward someone. What I mean by this is that when you run the opener on a group. but before . Once you've run the opening question. They are aware of the irrational emotional response created by attraction and attempt to shut it off as quickly as possible. Anything that removes a person's validation in a fun and playful way creates attraction toward you. Some other good examples are David Bowie. Actions which resemble chasing also create attraction. Surface attraction is anything which does not give physical pleasure. and the Elastic Snapband Effect. Dental Floss. you feel attracted to them. Attraction is felt physically in the body as a force propelling you to that which you are attracted. they feel attracted to you.etc.. Negs. Conversely. hoops. c+f. Busting.sry to any of the direct guys. Remember that all of the attraction caused by verbal techniques is just surface attraction. It is an automatic emotional response which symbolizes chasing. It is temporary and superficial. Attraction is created by the multitudes of techniques and methods that are studied here on mASF. People have a tendency to resist attraction.) Here is your assignment: Go out and use an opinion opener that has a strong RESPONSE BIAS. Mini Cold-reads. and they feel validated. snapping her bra. and rather than chatting them.php?t=448 Do each of the above. We can probably NOT start touching their arms . this one is trouble -We are not going to get along -I have to watch out for this one (to group) Don't leave me alone with her Either way.com/phpBB2/viewtopic. playing "hot hands".. I can tell already Or you can disagree with the target: -Oh man.) Your first mission this week will be do to playful kino openers. if you got a better one let me know).php?t=205 -A C&F roleplay For examples: http://arizonapua. Don't HURT the girls though. You can agree with the target: -I can hang with you -You are my new best friend we're going to get along. poking her. Here's the post that describes that: Quote from: "TylerDurden" We will go up to all attractive HBs on SIGHT. However. playful way (er. wrestling. smacking her on the ass after she makes some C&F remark.php?t=1249 -Elastic Snapband Stuff For examples: http://arizonapua. that's for later in the bedroom! . we will go KINO IMMEDIATELY before uttering so much as one word. playfully hitting her. thumb wrestling.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.Playful Kino This week we will be focusing on playful kino. sry I couldn't think of a better definition.com/phpBB2/viewtopic. Then tell your post opener story. two times (so a total of eight sets for the week).php?t=1253 -A Mini-cold Read For examples: http://arizonapua.you go into the post-opener story. before the invisible threads from the story start to die out. and pursue the threads from that. What is playful kino? It's touching women in a fun. and more..com/phpBB2/viewtopic. Examples of playful kino include: tickling a girl. play off of the target's response with some sort of CF push-pull. mimicker: ASSIGNMENT #3 . stack into any one of a couple things: Busting on Mannerisms For examples: http://arizonapua. just so long as you are playing off the target's reaction to start up the flirting/sexual communication. ala project mayhem by TD. Props to anyone willing to do this. and POST on this or whatever thread is spawned from this.YOUR MISSION: -Go out Immediately go kino on all HBs (try not to let a previously sarged HB see you doing this to the next HB) -Play like you did on the schoolyard. though I may lose my balls to do this. and are getting MAJOR EC/sidelong glances.etc.push our shopping carts into them in the isles etc. unless you are SHARP on reading IOIs. -Record their reactions and your EXACT method of KINO. and they must see you giving them EC and a PLAYFUL non-threatening (smile/tilthead/openbodylanguage) look as you physically approach. Rather. albeit taking the chance of getting arrested/charged. If I get these. as it is easier to talk about than actually do in a non-bar sober environment. It's little things like this that separate the naturals from the wannabe's. I may even grab the wrists and kiss the next girl who gives me SERIOUS BLATANT IOIs. Here's a few you can do to "accentuate" . Add them to when you are busting on the girl (or wherever else you see fit. This is. We will do this with a VERY playful look. although you are perhaps stupid. you will also add playful kino to your regular approaches.and lightly ..) The format for this type of thing is usually: -busting -playful kino -busting For more examples of playful kino.. bop them on the head with smartie packs in line at the grocery store.. IMO. and go up to HBs and -lightly. I realized just how many C & F Accentuators (is that a word?) I use. like STANDARDS KINO. unless anyone is INCLINED which would make for good feedback. however. pretend to . here's the post "C&F Accentuators" by CraigSD: Quote from: "CraigSD" After seeing David D's napkin swat. not recommended for newbies. I WILL lead by example and be attempting immediate sexual KINO this week. we will play like school yard kids. --TO RECAP . if this is to work (IE: don't run up to a chick from behind and bodyslam her OK bros) I am not suggesting walking up to HBs and touching them in immediately sexual ways. and have fun with these girls. In addition to playful kino OPENERS.hip check them. and it is very likely that it will happen. Pinch her on her side when you are laughing at her.your game: (David D's) Swat her with a napkin or a straw. Poke her in the stomach a la Pillsbury dough boy. and say. the authors.i finished 3 like 2 weeks ago .ArizonaPUA.. turn and bump her with your butt. All Rights Reserved. So to recap. Bite her neck. Give her "The Claw" (see the movie "Liar Liar"). use a playful kino opener ala project mayhem four times. . Navigation [0] Message Index [#] Next page Disclaimer: The content of this site is provided for purely educational purposes. Bump her with your arm and say.. make a fist for her to punch instead. At a "high five" moment. and risk of the reader. "Watch it punk". and use playful kino in your usual approaches at least four times. so watch it!" When you say something sarcastic. Aircom LLC. instead of smiling to break the tension. images.com. video. and the site owner.com. so have some freakin' fun and smack some ass for me :) =SkyNet=: where is asigment 4 ? gah . and any other form of content are copyright and the Property of www. smack it.2010 www. "Do you like when guys do this?" and grab her hair right above her neck. Put her in a headlock and give her a "noogie". "The next one's gonna be on your ass. and the editors do not accept any legal responsibility for such use. Copyright © 2004 . This should be a fun assignment. Unauthorized duplication is a violation of applicabale laws. Any use of the material contained within this site by the reader is carried out at the sole discretion. except for any content item that has been provided by another individual.ArizonaPUA. Say. Grab her hand. The site owner. All content and media on this website including audio. or another entity. .com from VH1's The Pickup Artist . how likely she will cling to you when you want to leave her) "Do you like going out to . I tacked on some comments to show why I would ask those questions:"Are you the adventurous type?" (Is she open to sex.* Looks after herself well (i. so I'm gonna let Neo-Rio take over from here.. but I'm going to move ahead in time a little bit. this week we will move from attraction into qualifying. Here are my general traits:. you need to know what kind of things you want in a chick before you do anything. looks hot) * Is intelligent (has the ability to learn new things) * Has hobbies (so she doesn't annoy me) * Has a good job (and therefore has money) * Is generally satisfied with her life (so I don't have to be therapist) * Has money (so she doesn't try to manipulate me for any) * Is good in bed (obvious) Now. Can you hang out with her?) "Where do you shop?" (Is she high maintenance? or does she survive off bargain bins?) "how much do you like to spend per week?" (How much money does she get.Screening I believe originally this week was supposed to be devoted IVD's and storytelling. Anyway. You need to know this as a baseline position when you screen. We may go back to that stuff later. Quote from: "NeoRio" First.." I'm pretty lazy this week and I'm not an expert on screening. one night stands?) "Can you cook?" (Can she cook for you?) "Do you like to party?" (Is she a social person? or will she be a wallflower at a party.ASKJDOG.VIDEO Exclusive! AZ PUA Bootcamp .e..visit our sponsor: www. and we will start with "screening. how rich is she) "Do you have any hobbies that take up a lot of your time?" (Does she have something to do when you don't want to fuck her) "Do you worry about what other people think of you?" (How insecure is she.All Assignments <<< (2/2) mimicker: ASSIGNMENT #4 . here are some good screening question I got from somewhere. but they will start BEGINNING TO ACT the way you suggested with you from now on. many-many-more (tm) Now. say. or relationships?) "Do you consider yourself a romantic?" (Is romance the key to her panties? or just dirty caveman sex) "Do you like animals?" (Is she an animal freak who lives with nine cats and avoids human beings?) "Do you feel that you get enough attention from people?" (Does she have high self-esteem? Can she find other guys easily?) "Do you think you work hard enough?" (What's her job satisfaction like. Women fall in love quickly like this because:. This is where push&pull really work well IMHO. First. A case of the good. It's just as well because I find intelligence particularly attractive in women" When women pass tests. and "Things which are obvious bullshit".Say you ask her what job she has. Not only that.restaurants a lot?" (Does she get out and do things? Or does she stay home and sleep all day) "What's the longest amount of time you have kept a partner for?" (Is she into one night stands. which is something.and of course.. They have set themselves down a path for their . can't resist having. they need the encouragement that they have passed one. the stuff you want to hear:. and you find out that she is. Then you would say something like "WOW! A chemical engineer! You must be pretty intelligent. when you hear the answers. Poor job satisfaction means that she's more likely to be a golddigger) "Have you ever fallen in love? Still open for it?" (How naieve/jaded she is) . a chemical engineer that she does well for herself financially. One being "Things you want to hear". "Things you don't want to hear". the bad. they are either going to fall into one of three categories. even gold-digging bitches. Pay attention that the manner in which you respond should be congruent with what you are looking for in a woman and more importantly CONVEY THAT YOU ARE SIZING HER UP BASED OFF OF IT. and the ugly.* They do the same kinds of shit-tests to men * It catches them unprepared to answer correctly * You are prizing yourself * You are hinting that a relationship is on offer... . The trick here is to remember your baseline requirements in a woman and stick to them. (This method generally works better in Japan.. BUT you suck at this". then you need to have a more nurturing role to fix a chick's issues and get them up to speed. A line like this on a chick with no sense of humour will also bomb. Comes off less sincere. Now.. Screening them out of any kind of connection with you for perfectly practical and reasonable things will KICK THEM INTO ACTION to fix the situation.. the stuff you DON'T want to hear:.behaviour around you. and you could be so perfect for me if you had a better . Note that you CAN'T do "You are wonderful blah blah blah. because you will meet MANY MANY women which are "damaged" in some way. This way is more romantic. Slowly slip in ". ONLY if you ENCOURAGE them to do so.. When C&F is failing. but with a woman with a sense of humour it will be DAMN FUNNY! Use C&F with care.. then you will BOMB. Then you have to show her ways she can go about fixing these problems... First you need to start of by focussing on the good things.. Instead of using BUT. and who are too sensitive. C&F works (IMHO) when you jokingly point out that a woman is failing your screening test.. more on this later. This is ALSO where C&F behaviour works INCREDIBLY well. and on women who are generally too gutless to face reality with any courage). then you can say "I know you have a lot of potential. or are not perfect but you will want to bonk them anyway.. Lots of women seem to be programmed from birth to attempt to attract ALL men at ALL COSTS. If you say something like "No cooking ability? Right! Then it's OVER between us!" without the C&F and exaggeration. and not put up with problems women have. (at least in Japan many women are like this.This is particularly tricky. Note that C&F generally won't work on women with no sense of humour.and you would be so much more perfect for me if you could just do X". use AND.) so in these cases you will need to be more nurturing to fix the problem. and NOT GET PUT OFF BY HER BEAUTY OR WHATEVER. Say she has a crappy job. " If she is shit testing you. and IF things are going well between both of you. Then she'll be hooked. obvious or not. I'm going to get to know the real you anyway" In one swift move you are in a position to drop her value. You won't get to fuck EVERY woman you meet though. When you find bad stuff. Even if she's lied to you at this point. and you would be so much better if you just act yourself and stop lying to me like this. she's going to think that she's somehow seduced you when it's really YOU doing the seducing. cause otherwise she has to know that she risks losing you. if she is telling bullshit. You can also blatantly tell her that since you are a good couple (you forced her to pass your screening) then its natural and no big deal. You will catch many bad things out in screening which should ring alarm bells. They'll tell you everything you want to hear and lie about it. teach her something (build value in yourself). Remember. you can say "Look.. Screening is about getting hooked up . She is going to have to act congruent with what she tells you. as per above. or if she thinks she failed. You need to take what you have and work on it. you can't fuck her if you fail her on the screen. and you have to sell that to her. All her problems can be solved (they have to be). and you'll be a great guy.. Some will be obvious bullshitters. and isolations. you're a great girl. At this point you can basically start with screening of a sexual nature... DON'T waste time on one woman when you've already sized her up. then you have to take the moment into your hands.job. what happens when she tells you bullshit:. Tipping control back into your favour.. Moving in for the close after about 20-30 minutes of knowing a chick is good practice. you HAVE to fix it and move on. The fun comes when you go for the close after 20 minutes of screening a chick. Let me show you how.. Obvious bullshit is screenable. Now. Also understand that cock teasers are great in the bullshit department.First. then understand that she is throwing her power away already. you will also note that screening is not about getting hooked up on one woman. This actually gives you power to call her out on all sorts of stuff. . to keep people engaged and fascinated -subtle allusions to the reasons why you're cool some sort of conclusion/moral/punchline For an example of how this process was used to tighten up a story. please read these posts: first post second post third post To listen to the final. but to how you're saying them as well. good luck. So make up some of your own questions for screening (or use his) and go out and use them. For the storytelling component of this assignment. click this link: Gay Cats Story.Storytelling and IVDs This week we are going to work on conveying value. For an explanation of IVDs and demonstrating value. Onward. I suggest you pick one story about something fun/cool that you did recently. Assignment #5 . Skynet and I will be taking over the BC assignments until he returns. and through interactive demonstrations of higher value (IVDs). pay attention to Wilder's tonality and pacing. please read this post: Instant Interactive Value Demonstrations IVDs typically take a bit more work to . tight version of this routine (audio). Once you've selected your stories. take a minute to read this post: Wilder's Story Theory And then run your stories through the process that Wilder outlines. Here is this weeks assignment. Mojo: Mimicker is going to be out for a month or so. So as you take this stuff out into the field.mp3 Also.with a select number of women.. as you're listening. Make sure that it has: an initial hook.and it works to create attraction that is a bit more "sticky" than the buyingtemperature stuff we have worked on in previous weeks. you will need to select two true stories from your own life to tell. This is attraction material. and meeting a hell of a lot more. A large part of why story telling works is in HOW you tell the story. in order to make them into semi-polished routines you can take out into the field with you. through telling stories. pay attention not only to the words. to give people a reason to listen -little waypoints of humor and drama throughout the story. and one story about an interesting drama/social dynamic that is going on within your social circle recently. with groups of any size. out of the blue. Tip:Final tip. Instead. and stack in an IVD in at least four of these sets as well. You will often see people post "I don't know how to transition into that story. If you still have trouble with this. your assignment to start off with is to select one of the canned community IVDs and take that out into the field with you. When I started out I used the Cs vs Us many many times. and play around with how you sequence the stories with the other material you've learned. Assume that it works. and with girls who are already exhibiting the behavior that the routine busts on. realize that you don't need transitions." which is a very useful tool for the student." and go right into your story. It is a good routine. you will learn why it works and will start to come up with some of your own ideas. As you use the material in the field. Tip:I would recommend NOT selecting the best friends test as the IVD you use. You will see that they sometimes don't have any transition between their routines at all. I was chatting to my friend today and. "hey. try watching a few standup comedians on DVD. and it will. You can simply say. and it still flows.. Sure. Doing this sort of thing is how you start to build yourself a "routine stack. but it is best suited to use in a twoset. you can have the BF test teed up in case you do sarge a twoset. find an IVD that you can use in all situations. check this out. . or does it work better only as a response to the girl's BS? When is the best time to insert your qualifying questions? Ask yourself this stuff as you are practicing. So to keep things simple. The assignment for the week is eight sets.. Tip:One of the sticking points that I and a lot of other people ran into with learning this skillset is discomfort in stacking. The key to making this work is simply acting like it is natural. but make sure you are keeping your options open and flexible. I promise :) As you are out practicing this material. for exactly this reason. Tell your stories 4 times each." To avoid this sticking point. take some time to pay attention to your sequencing and stacking. What seems to work best? Do you want to stack your flirting/CF stuff around the stories..come up with. Mojo: Assignment #6 ." as well as some simple qualifying techniques. So far. The above is focused largely on MISTAKES. we are going to focus on tightening up what we've already learned. you will see errors you are making and correct them quickly. But as of right now. you have all the tools you need to get somewhere with women. written up the definitive post on body language. we have covered a range of attraction "tools. In the near future. This is all you really need to get basic number closes. Try: Sheriff's Subcommunication Checklist My suggestion. One caveat though. It might be helpful to use a checklist with this. and building more solid closes through bridging and venuechanging. So for the next several weeks. we will begin to add some artistry to it.Body Language This week we shift priorities in bootcamp. Your Body Language Tyler Durden has. as well as tightening up various levels of subcommunication. This aspect of the game didn't really click for me until I . If you've been practicing the tools so far. even though its a bit dorky. but they make a HUGE difference in the kind of responses you get. is to print out the above checklist and take it into the field with you for a week. The things we'll be working on in the next several weeks are subtle. After each set. It is hard to figure out what GOOD body language looks like without having a real world model. Getting immediate feedback like this. This week. and calibrating to the target based on her body language. We will work on comfort and kino escalation. We will focus on two aspects: tightening up our own body langauge to make sure its not subcommunicating the wrong things. our focus is on body language. correct them. However. you may not be experiencing the success you want yet. and see how the responses you are getting change. pay attention to your BL and see if you are making any of the mistakes that TD points out in his post. and only getting lukewarm responses. IMO. Please read: TD's 25 point checklist As you go out this week and run your sets. If you are. review quickly and check off the errors you made. it is probably because some aspect of your subcommunication is flawed. asking the girl for a number or email is fine. you can get ideas to start off on the right path to learn how to calibrate. Passive IOIs are the ones the girl gives off naturally. Calibration is a skill that is almost entirely learnt through repeated field experience. and see if she leans toward . as it used to be taught in the old days. based on the cues you are getting from her. but for now. leaning in. If this isn't possible for you. "Once you have counted three IOIs. and watch Brad Pitt and George Clooney's BL.met up with JDog. Knowing exactly what to do takes field experience. Generally. nonautopilot answers to what I'm saying) -is asking me personal questions? -is she touching me? If you want to play around with IOI tests (active IOIs). By paying attention to the IOIs the girl is giving you. The way to start learning calibration is through IOIs (Indicators of Interest). giving thoughtful. So if you can. then you can look for other examples. Her Body Language The second part of this week's assignment is learning to calibrate your game to the specific girl. You can try a fancy close like venuechanging or kissing. Also.wmv video of CraigSD's appearance on Elimidate (it used to be on bristollair. etc). There are two types of IOIs. If you can. you must close the girl." So this week. see: Layguide signs of interest list I don't try to remember all of this in the field. and see if she holds it or sets it down -lean out. you will start to look for IOIs. check out some of the videos on www.com . -give her something to hold (a drink. You won't learn it through text. however. and if you count three of them. active and passive. here are a couple. but we can start with a simple concept from the Mystery Method. I don't know where to find it now). I am looking for only three IOIs: -is she engaged in the conversation? (ie. phase shift into the close. try to find the .puamedia. she's laughing. For a long list of passive IOIs. These can be fun to play with. Try watching the movie Ocean's Eleven. Active IOIs are the ones that you elicit by testing for them. try to meet up with one of the skilled guys from the lair. you will know exactly what you need to do in that moment to advance the pickup. "You are so beautifuI" and the girl rudely responds. here is a quote from Swinggcat's Real World Seduction ebook: Quote I have already mentioned frames several times. shift the set to a close. "buy me a drink" to which the guy chuckles and says. Put in layman's terms a frame determines the underlying meaning of behaviours and actions. the second guy has a pretty good chance. After a few minutes the girl says. but are seeking a clear definition. "sure. You might be wondering.you -let the conversation die off. and see if she takes it -run some kino IOI tests (see the second newsletter) So. etc. anything you want sweetheart". For a description of what this means. And l am sure many of you have some idea of what l mean by "frame". "Yea yea. So.. to work out the kinks in your routine stack).. by the . "Is that your best pick up line? You struck me as someone more creative than that".. and see if she tries to reinitiate "sooo. what exactly is going on here? The difference is that in the first example. He responds by saying. Keep running your material as you have before (remember to pay attention to your sequencing. the assignment for the week is 10 sets.Frame Control This week we are going to work on building a strong frame.now go buy me a drink". a meta-frame determines the overall underlying meaning of the interaction. Now imagine another guy going up to a girl and chatting her up. AND POST YOUR RESULTS IN THE FORUM!!! Mojo: Assignment #7 . As you are running the set. However. take a few minutes to review the subcommunication checklist and see how you did. On the other hand. why this is the case? Or. Imagine a guy goes up to a girl in a bar and says." -offer her a sip of your drink/a bite of food/gum. A "frame" is a general focus or direction that provides an overall guidance for thoughts and actions during an interaction. think of the meta-frame as a giant frame which all of the other frames fit inside of. what is different about these two examples? Or. count IOIs and once you have three. Let's look at an example. Once the set is over. I would put some big money on the first guy not shagging the girI. since he is rewarding her rude behaviour. this is how he is allowing the underlying meanings of his behaviours and actions to be defined. So this week's assignment is an important one to get down. This meta-frame is unlikely to lead to this guy getting laid. But l am here to tell you that this is bullshit because underlying meanings and frames are not objective reality. Unfortunately. But even if she doesn't. and she buys into it. it is just objective reality. that she is the PRIZE and that if he wants to talk to her he has to buy her a drink. It is just what a person accepts as their subjective reality. Now she may or may not fall into his meta-frame. Put in other words. The reason is that he is sticking to his guns and not falling into her meta-frame: namely. the frames he has set both imply and fit inside her meta-frame: that she is the PRIZE. you are in her frame. Put in other words. A strong frame is a universally attractive trait to women. That he is a pushover. So let's look at why the second guy has a much better chance of shagging the girI. MM. she is in your frame. when a woman says something rude to you and you buy into it being true. Having a strong frame is the one thing that's common to all seduction methods that work. SS. he is conveying the message that he is unwilling to buy into her metaframe. not necessarily the other way around. and underlying meanings are not reaI. meta-frames. be it direct. Did you get that? This is very very important. That he must be the one who is interested in her. etc. that he is trying to win her over. Some of you might be thinking that this whole talk of frames is silly because a person cannot really change the underlying meaning of an interaction. DYD. But none of this is objective reality. 2. he flips it around on her and maintains the belief that he is the PRIZE in the interaction. They only exist inside the skulls of human beings. That he is trying to get her to stay and talk with him. Through the community you can learn all sorts of little . and etc. Instead of doing this. frames. When you say something to a woman.guy responding to the rude woman's request--for him to buy her a drink--he is allowing the following frames to be set: 1. So. 3. Your assignment for the week is to go out and do this ten times. You can do it multiple times in a single set if you want. This is a learning process everyone must go through. The way you do this is through field experience.. PUA: . Some examples: AFC: I want to take you out tomorrow. and start to internalize the frame into your identity. you are subjecting yourself to social pressure. Those have got to go. Can you tone down the dorkiness? AFC: You're really a sweet girl. and post your observations in your BC thread. and attract them to you. And we've worked on some of this stuff already .lines and tricks to control the frame in an interaction. you are going to say or do something AFC. AFC: I think I could really fall for you.if it weren't for those shoes. No one is above it. you have to go beyond just spouting the lines.. This is what we are going to focus on this week.but I'm worried that you might embarrass me in front of my friends.. However. if they are going to get good.a lot of the CF stuff we did in week two works because it controls the frame of the interaction. Navigation . This strong reality will suck people in. One of the best sources for this stuff is actually Swinggcat's Real World Seduction ebook. cause I know it will be HILARIOUS). However. Then attempt to recover the set from a PUA frame.. be sure to post a FR. (If you do. Just do it ten times. there are some things that you can do to accelerate it. Your assignment for the week is to fuck up your sets :) In the middle of a set. PUA: Its too bad you're mentally so disoriented. but it also creates some funny push-pulls. With repeated exposure. or whatever. but you get the general idea. this not only helps you develop a stronger frame. As you go out into the field and attempt to pick up girls. PUA: . if you really want to get this down.. You can also do it on the phone with a girl you already PUed. 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