Jeans*Joes Guide to Perfect Eye Contact – Version 2Back in the days when I started PickUp I first read in mASF and the Players Guide of fastseduction.com, not knowing that there is a German community at all. I started messing around with simple techniques and as I was too afraid to say a simple “hi” most o f the time my experiments were of non-verbal nature. I started practicing David Shades Eye Contact experiment and after what has been half a year now it is extremely calibrated and one of my top weapons of mass seduction. In the first few weeks about one in 20 girls looked back when I looked at her, then one in ten and today I get Attraction from about 80% of the girls that dare to look into my eyes. And it‟s not only women at the age of 20, its wome n between 15 and 60! (Though I don‟t close those above 30, but sometimes they do you a small favour like lowering the price or giving you something for free) The EC is combined with the Body Language an ultimate tool. People see everything which is within their focus of the eye. You see everything you see. Sound s stupid, but you see more than you see. It‟s that way: You can see you computers monitor very clearly because your attention is on the monitor. Now it is not only the monitor you see? You see all the surroundings too. Maybe there are speakers, a keyboard a mouse, whatever. You see that stuff though you do not concentrate on it. You do not need to shift you attention to see it, you see it by just looking at the monitor but you consider it not interesting, because it is not moving or has no boobs. This has partly to do with Awareness Radius. So if you want to inform yourself about Awareness Radius, do that – it will enhance you game a lot! Okay, so imagine a girl in a bar. She is sitting there chatting with her friend in a semi-interesting conversation. If the conversation was really interesting her AR would be only on herself and her friend, but as it is only semi-interesting she realizes all her surroundings, though she consciously is not giving them any attention. Now a real AFC comes in. He moves and there fore she unconsciously checks him out. She doesn‟t even know that she is doing that, she keeps on talking to her friend. As it is an AFC she will not move hear head or eyes an inch. A second person comes in, he has a good BL and one might consider him immediately as an HSE person. This time her unconscious mind wakes up her conscious mind and tells to look into the direction of that handsome stranger and check him out whether he is material for sex or not. One might say he has charisma, but broken down charisma is just a mixture of BL, AR, social skills and a good InnerGame. Nothing special, anyone can get that. So this post is about the EC Element of such a charismatic person. It would be best to inform yourself about BL and AR because these two elements help you with your EC and vice versa. It is not obligatory, but you might want to do that. This Technique is split in two parts, the Beginners Editions and the Mastery Edition. Everybody should do the Beginners Editi on. It‟s not complicated and broken down in 10 simple rules which you MUST follow. Usually I hate to say that something is a must because it contradicts the idea of calibrating and being in the moment. But about everybody has deep wired anchors on his EC and it needs some force to break these. One of these anchors is that you look away once the EC of a HB9 touches your eyes. So please please follow the instructions until you know what you are doing and how you are doing it. The Beginners Edition The Rules: This is for sets that you haven‟t approached yet 1. 2. You start looking into her eyes at a distance of 10 meters. If you start looking at her before you reach that distance she might consider you a staring AFC, which is not good for your calibration. Look at that what you like. There is absolutely nothing wrong with looking at a person you find attractive. You don‟t have to excuse yourself for doing so. Just look, and even if she asks why you are looking at her, a simple “I do find you attractive” is enough. It takes balls to say that, but it really is that way. She will actually like you even more for looking at her when you do not need an excuse for looking at her. 3. Just look into one eye. This way you eliminate any fidgety movements with your eyes which would make you look nervous. You want to have a steady, calm and relaxed EC. Stop looking at her boobs or butt. Just concentrate on the eye. It doesn‟t matter which eye, but you should never change during one EC. You might change if she looks away, but I wouldn‟t do th at either. It makes you look nervous. Some people say that the left eye is connected with the emotional side of her body, whether you believe it or not you might want to do that. Better sa fe than sorry. Don‟t mess around with AFC techniques like looking at the point between her eyes and crap like that. Just look right into one eye. You are the man, leader of the tribe. Her ass is your property and you are allowed to look at her. 4. 5. Do not – whatever happens – look away. Just stay there. If people walk between the two of you or if you walk and things break your EC, keep on looking as if you still could see her. Most of the times she will look away in the beginning but you look as long as it takes for her to look away. Stick with your first choice. No switching. Not even if she is fucking ugly and next to her is a HB10. You decide once and stick with your choice until your choice looks away. Only if she looks away first you are allowed to change the person. If you take the M3 Model into consideration you usually are in A2 or sometimes C1 after a good EC. But trust me 20° are enough. for the space he takes up right now and tries to disappear by melting and merging with the surroundings. for looking at you sexually. You look away – you loose. The moment I look at a girl I will run through the same process every time: Depending on what I‟m doing and how attractive sh e is I will give her a certain amount of my awareness. Later it‟s about 80% of them. Just follow them. This guy felt sorry for himself. The game is lost. In 97% of all situations in which EC occurs following these rules is the best way to go for. Ask your wing to help you to fix that if you “suffer” from that. This is important only for beginners. It‟s an easy exercise as you do it a few times a day. These rules apply to everything that has eyes. Just have an EC that tells her that you might be interested in her personality. living within his own world of sorrow. 9. If you decide to look again the only outcome would be that you look away again before she does. etc. 8. you might go for that as well. after that her attraction decreases e very second.6. Not gonna happen. There is a n urge from within that makes you look away. forever what reasons don‟t approach her you may turn your head 20°s. Look up rule 8 concerning such situations. There is a point about one or one and a half meters in front of you. The rule of energy is that you use less energy than she does. Our Mr. Next time you will not – trust me. You wait for her to look away you win and get the girl – if you approach her at some point. It was just a few seconds of looking at something and you fucked up. boobs) and you look at him and make him feel sorry for himself. Let go of every AA and just look and feel comfortable with that. girls. If you do not approach her then the rule of energy comes into action. AFC will feel so sorry for himself. shoulders leaning slightly backwards. You might want to approach her when she walks past you. bought a new pair of boots. If a girl is behind this point she is more likely to continue walking then to stop and talk to you. The 10 rules from above are obligatory until you break this social . So you do have to approach her before she reaches that point. If the do. Tell yourself what a looser you are. which is not much. shopping with the girls. So keep yourself a small amount of dignity and do not look again. You blink less. have the wing hit your arms in unpredictable amounts of time and try to have your eye contact steady and calm. and you just think about what movie with Jonny Depp you will watch that night. you may never ever look again. Whatever you do. What the ? is EC good for? Imagine an AFC. The higher her HB rating the shorter your look will be. the eyes. If you look away first. Now from the girls perspective: You had a nice day. I one found myself gaming a dog with EC. Sometimes you feel like Superman. You lowered your Value in looking away first. Shy. You will see if you shake you head that your eyeball somehow is fixed and your head moves around it… funny stuff. Some will look at you not even recognizing that they look at you. You should eliminate any fidgety movements. As a girl you will never fuck someone who feels sorry for his penis and his hormones that make him look at you. I do not care if you like this rules or if you understand them. Chest to the front. You suddenly realize that a being is looking at your secondary sexual organs (aka. You are not needy as your EC is not sexual. one eyed pirates and even cats. Look directly in one eye of the wing and have the wing tell you if your eyes move nervously in some kind of way. You might also walk past the mirror and check if you can hold your EC while walking. If you are still insecure whether you should stick with the rule or not then you should definitely stick with the rule. The best thing to happen is a long look (which tells me she is confident and attracted) and then a look downward (AI) with a huuuge smile (IOI). And if that is the case you really should consider to approach her as she is definitely into you. Do not the f*ck look away! JUST DON‟T! Consider it a game. An additional hint: A few people are so nervous that they have small movements in their eyes. You might want to punish yourself if you look away before she does. The AFC will look away and the HB will win this game. If she turns her head more than that you might turn it as well. move your hands less and slower. If you. If she walks past you stick with a maximum head turning of 20°s. for whatever you do. 10. Have a self confident BL and look like a HSE guy. Usually I keep enough awareness to do whatever I am doing and give the rest of it to her until she hooks. With the exception of the escalation – which would be an approach. So you save a lot of boring talking and have a nice vibe going on with a good and dominant EC. and just relax. It’s a game… will you win? At first you won‟t be able to hold the EC for a long time. Her confidence will increase for a few seconds. One other thing that might work – never fieldtested because I never had that problem. HB9 will immediately recognize it as she has sensors for that. but I trained my look once this way: Stay in front of a mirror look in one eye and start moving in front of the mirror without looking away from the one eye. she does it first. An HB9 comes along and he looks directly at her butt or boobs – or if he has an rAFC kind of day. 7. This is your social conditioning fucking around with you. When you start with this technique only a few will look again. If she opens your body towards you. She will look at him. looking an women and see them melting. most women will look at you as they realize that an HQ guy looks at them. In the mastery you will definitely look sexual sometimes. You will know after a few days or weeks in which cases you are allowed not to stick with the rule. After the second look it is time to approach. If she looks away and you consider her as attractive you just leave your eyes where they are. b) Mystery Style 2: Fuck Finger. No way back. The longer she looks the more she is interested and if an IOI follows the more she is into you. Only a person that has to show DHV and has to neg is of LV. I‟m telling you this because this is the vital part in this technique. If you do not approach you are just a horny guy that does not have the balls to talk to women. If you look away first you fuck up. And believe it or not you are no sexual material if you are below her in the sexual ranking – or at least not the first choice sexual material. Sometimes she will open her BL which is also an IOI. At some point you saw him fail at something or just being in a really bad mood and being a LSE person. And why? Because you couldn‟t hold the EC for another second. c) SOI. This is Mastery Edition Stuff… d) Go over to her. Whatever: If you look away you loose. you‟re in the game. This will get her laughing. She subordinated. Most of the times she did not realize you were looking at her at all or she just pretends that she did not. In most cases the first impression is right. She will know that. You should consider looking away until then because I can spend the whole night doing that. some girls might get really pissed off and kick your family jewels. If she won‟t look away:a) Mystery Style 1: Tongue out and huge eyes. 50 year old ladies might be attracted too. What if. A person you meet will always be above or below you in the social ranking. When I was a kid I wanted the world to be fair and have everyone on one stage of the social ranking. Imagine you are in second grade (at least in Germany we played it…) and you play this silly game: Who blinks first looses. The look to the side is like leaving this stupid game without deciding which rank you are. Be careful not to look horny or needy. to whoever is in range.” Do it 24/7. If you manage it without hitting other people in the bar it‟s a great DHV. If you don ‟t show it the girl that you are a LV person. So after the second look is you last good chance for an approach. If she stops doing whatever she was doing the moment you started catching her EC then this is also an IOI. This is a very hard neg – so careful with that. When you stay in front of her just say: “Hi” or some funny line like “Okay. Fix your BL and go on with EC training. She will look usually twice or more if she looked down. No chance in getting in there again. or who looks away first looses. Just go for another set and try it again.conditioning. She can give you orders as you are below her in the social ranking. this one is messed up. You might really want to smile if you do that. You clearly do not want an LSE person pushing you around – we had that in that 3 year relationship a few months ago. just look interested. I‟ll give you a hint on that in the Mastery Edition. Maybe it occurred to you that you met someone and you decided on his first impression that he or she is so high in the social ranking it would be hard to reach his / her status.” Or very funny: . One of the reasons why it works so good for me is because I do it wherever I am.. After the second look your value and her attraction will drop every second. Whenever and wherever you are. – Get lost. Like I said before. Consider this experiment a game. So never look away first. Like “what‟s up?” or “I‟m slightly interested what might be behind this interesting shape of a girl. She should by no means consider this an offence but as a funny way of dealing with her persistent look. Being at the top of the social ranking will make you exclusive sexual material. without looking away. In this case your first impression was wrong and you will put him down in the ranking. which is the error in Mystery Game as you consider yourself of somehow kind of lower value than the girl because you need negs. she will just have to go with the fact that you are a HQ person. You do not go for any sexual looks (not yet). Now you have to decide whether you approach or not. So the first impression is really important and how good to know that you can improve it with your EC. Sometimes she is a bit attracted in these cases she will look again and the you will have a definite answer on the second look. You should look slightly interested. or moving the front of her body towards you. You look away first you loose. but I won‟t close them. So yo u might want to punish yourself for looking away first. Some more hints: DO NOT LOOK AWAY. Sometime I just have a nice day and want to give out compliments to random persons – later more on that compliment stuff. Negs will help you improve your status in the ranking. There is no exception from the rule until you master looking at an HB9 and she looks away first – on a consistent basis. She looks away sideward – She is not so sure.? I look away before she does. Usually I just do it on employees in shop that I get stuff cheaper. You put yourself below her in the social ranking. The alpha ape has the first choice when it comes to copulation. She might be a LSE girl and now she has the right to give you orders. Opening BL is: uncrossing arms and legs. Wherever she looks. A good EC will push you above the person you meet every time you meet someone. smiling is always an IOI. If she gives you the rolling eyes you know that your frame just sucked and she considered herself to be too valuable to jump into you eye game hoop – or to subordinate. Don‟t be afraid and just look at her. This will never happen. Just that this game is a bit more serious. She looks away upward – Not attracted. I gotta leave at 9pm. The social ranking is created by everyone for himself in his or her own head. This is party used in the EC as you look at her like a HQ guy. She looks away downward – This is an IOI. You are a slave because of looking away a second to soon. Your ass now belongs to her. You will loose again. Tell yourself that you lost and that your ass belongs to that random girl that you don‟t even know. “ PUA: „I never look away first. Sometimes they risk a last look when they walk past you. which is even more funny. Which helps to keep up the anchors you created (see Mastery Edition). Watch your BL and thoughts. If you start this experiment some women might walk past you. so you will have to. I think the amount of time is longer. A conversation without blinking and looking away is just paradox and does not look natural. very small trance. If she re ally won‟t stop go for kino escalation. This is the real shit. The fact that the desperately tried to convince themselves not to look is just to funny. Please look away a few times. It is best you decide for one eye for all girls. If you do not know what the heck I am talking about just leave the symbols away.” (It‟s partly true. *And then a person looks at you* and >you feel some kind of warmth in yourself<. You feel ready for new material on EC If you can answer these questions with yes you may continue reading.) After the Approach: Always look into one eye. After 5 minutes of good EC within a chat you either get a good rapport or a sexual vibe) In our situation here she will in most cases risk to fall in love with you and just look at your eyes. This women will look straight forward to an imaginary point some 10 meters before them and look as if they tell themselves: “Do not look. . As your thoughts are partly represented by your BL. It may occur that you calibrate wrong if you read the following information too soon. Try to blink less than she does. you can hold the EC of a HB9 without looking away first. In areas with high traffic it is very difficult to hold EC. Never switch sides. do not look. Look a long time in her eyes. You can do it but it won‟t help you for your EC.” I always started laughing when I saw one of them. start tickling her or get in for the KC as she is really into you. Try walking slower then anybody else. I marked it with >this< so pronounce this slightly different and more dominant than the rest of the sentence. Try not to look sexual or aggressive or the guy might use some unwanted kino escalation on you. if you start this it might get pretty uncomfortable sometimes. She will of course not look away and tell you so: HB: „No. It does not make any sense to read further otherwise. and you do not want to look horny or shy or LSE when performing the EC.PUA: “Look away.” With a played serious face. thank you for saving my day.” Now give her a few seconds and then start with a nice NLP routine: PUA: “I read just a day ago that the human brain emits hormones that make you fall in love with someone (point with your fingertips at yourself) after having an intense eye contact for more than 30 seconds. this will help you. But it works. So Welcome to the Mastery Edition. And >just feel happy<. not moving her head but it is perfectly clear that she noticed you. So. Then you don‟t even switch bet ween dates. Mastery Edition When am I ready to start the Mastery Edition? You already read and understood the Beginners Edition and applied the rules for at least 4 weeks in the field. or just be peakcocked. In general moving less and using less energy then she and everybody else in the room makes you the leader of the group. Just be self-confident. *This* is the pacing part which leads her into a very. EC works with guys too.“ HB: “I won‟t either. do not look. You need a very good frame to draw looks to yourself. but keep looking for a few more seconds even if you feel like looking away.‟ (there is a slight NLP command in it. Possible Opener „hi‟ PUA: „thank you‟ HB: ‟What for?‟ PUA: „Sometimes you wake up and whatever you do everything goes wrong. I‟m going to expl ain you how to do that. It is only for her and you give it away for free. but if it works she will freak out – in a positive way. There are some nights on which I give away 100 of them just to calibrate my EC. So it is not so unique after all. Imagine you could do that on purpose – and soon you will. It might be useful to have a manner of walking that makes you secure if someone bumps into you. You will know from calibration which EC-vibe is the right one for you target. a Technique used and discovered by Killswitch) I recommend that you do so. This is very effective to create a vibe. give you an AI or have her approach you. It breaks the EC for half a second and if you look at her as if the car wasn‟t there you sometimes can manage to keep t he vibe. your passive AR is on the surroundings. She will think your EC it is an unique compliment that you give away to special girls like once a month or so. So you walk somewhere and you see a girl. If you look at her eye try to concentrate only on her eyes and face – not the surroundings. And from there you can create a unique vibe between you and her and take her to an EC where she forgets why she laughs but just realizes that she is really happy and looking at you. the two of you have EC and you continue walking in the same speed you did before. I think he called it AR Blasting. If done right she will mirro r you and go into the same emotion. Her friends sometimes will not even notice that you are looking at each other – and if they do they will be attracted too. No nervous movements as they destroy the trance. You show her immediately that you find her interesting and even sexy. It works depending on the girl.” And for sexual vibes the bedroom look. even after all these years of knowing you. Consider your look as an unique compliment. I once met a PUA who made AR Fucking just with EC and completely destroyed someones AR. . The SOI In the Mastery Edition the EC is an SOI. As if the world just disappears and only you and she still exist. they are nerdy and won‟t get us laid. Sometimes it doesn‟t work at all. If you want her to be attracted than showing her by EC that you attracted should be en ough. Imagine a slowly passing car breaks the EC you have with the girl. Girls know exactly what is going on. Now there is a bit more in good EC than that. and if she still looks after a short interruption you will know that she is really attracted. In some Hollywood Movies there are these love at the first sight scenes. However she reacts you will have to deal with it like a player. Gaming the obstacle is unnecessary as she will be attracted too. even if you do not look at her. For rapport use the “Oh my god you are so hilarious. You do not wait for an answer – you do not want her to smile. Guys usually underestimate the power of my EC and do not consider me a danger their girl. And if you can see it you should use 1% of your AR to walk in these surroundings. everybody else will notice that you are not actively aware of them and take care that they don‟t bump into you. You need some understandin g in AR to do that. You shouldn‟t trip over when having EC – DLV… And DLVs are not cute as movies want to make us believe. You should calibrate that way that she looks as long and as interested as possible.Why is there a second part? Your EC is one of the top non-verbal forms of communication. If you just give it away because you are a happy person chances are good that you will get laid. If you walk at the same speed this won‟t break the small trance between the two of you. And whatever reaction she gives you you should never be surprised! If you are surprised because she gives you an AI then she will know that you are not an HSE person and you get AIs very seldom. Try looking at her very relaxed and in an attracted way. Awareness Radius and Trance If you did not yet read anything about AR (Awareness Radius. They are just fascinated by your EC… So always look in one eye and stay completely calm and relaxed. If she is laughing with her friends then look at her as if you were happy too and that you take part in her happyness. You look at her. A man looks directly into the woman‟s eye and there is this vibe between them. In Mastery you can have a sexual EC at once. looking at her will put her into some kind of trance. The most effective way is to mirror her vibe and then create a new vibe and take her there. Kind of the interruption Handshake. I do not even break EC if something breaks the EC for a short amount of time. What we did up to now is tell the target that we are interested into her. A small breakdown of the Steps: Awareness Radius When looking at her try to create a vacuum around you and her. It will help you a lot with this. BL If you happen to walk while you catch someone‟s EC there is a nice technique to show her good DHV. Though you look at her and notice her 100% your unconscious scans the surroundings for dangers like cliffs and other stuff which might harm you. How can you manage not to run into somet hing? The trick is that your active AR is on her. You do not want to get somewhere with a compliment – never! If you think you can lay her because of a compliment you will never lay her. Okay. Some girls will continue looking at you without knowing why. You just do not expect that – but if she does so you have to react on it. It happens quite often that friends of my target are attracted too and tell my target that I am looking at her. We may also create Attraction and Rapport by communicating on deeper levels. You still see the rest of the world it is just not in your active AR. but the trance is not that deep. The Obstacle will immediately recognize the vibe between you and the target and will stop any CB behaviour. If you put you AR on you and her only. Do not cross arms or legs at any time. When you do direct openers the right way you will hook with the first sentence – you just have to. I need to talk to you.” What “…” is will the girl put in. Again. If you use a straw a sexual vibe will start. Your target will exactly know what you are doing as you had this unique EC with her and she will love it. but you will know by now when she is attracted even if she looks away upwards. The direct opener just needs balls and that‟s your DHV. For two reasons: 1. Sometimes you might want to use a situational opener: „Hey. She has to earn being approached and talking to the handsome guy that you are. If you have this mood 24/7 you will be prepared for every EC. That‟s because people think of themselves most of the times the best. but again only before she catches your EC. the only DHV you will need during the Set.” If she likes her vibe she will think: “Hey I like your vibe. If she earns it you will go over and do a direct or situational opener ONLY! Indirect Openers will throw you out of the set – immediately. you know what I am talking about… Your facial expression should not change at all – at first.” It‟s always the same: “…(insert SOI here)….) If she is standing there alone and is not extremely LSE a simple “hi” will be perfect. with the same speed you used before having EC. Gunwitch or some other direct material. not during EC. or can they? In which direction she looks away when breaking your EC will not be important any more. Exactly the same way a horny AFC looks down the moment an HB9 sees him looking at her. They have to earn talking to me – I am the price… DHV The direct opener has some pure DHV in it. The usual direct opener is: “Hey.” “Hey. I want to talk to you. What is likely to happen In most cases she will look twice. Mirroring her BL is very effective too. moving slowly just being happy and relaxed. If she likes her hair she will think that your direct opener is: “Hey I like your hair. I really like your curly hair. These girls just subordinate to me and are no material for approaching. calm mood. I need to talk to you. this band rocks. If she does not give you an IOI and you do not feel like approaching her. If you do EC right you will hook within the quarter of a second.If you do not walk then you should also continue doing whatever you were doing. 2. Most of the time the universal opener (“hi”) will do it. I want to talk to you. Stick with Juggler game. What will happen is that the group will think you do a usual situational opener and you just socialize with them. you give her a bit space to see your social skills first. If you have a super LSE person and your EC is not warm and friendly and giving her an SOI than she will think that you want to harm her. doesn‟t it?“ (again very important with this opener you do not care if she answers. it‟s sexy. It is. And it is the same as with the verbal direct opener: you do not hook with the words but . Some women look only once and some will watch you the whole evening catching your EC. you keep the secret between the two of you and do not compromise her for looking at you. Sometimes you meet an HSE woman that won‟t break EC and even send you an SOI! Please keep your frame and do not look away. The best BL is a relaxed. I like your face. But usually it takes a good BL to make her interested in you in the first place.” “I like this special aura around you. They are to shy to show you attraction – so you know that you deserve better. My look became a good selection algorithm to find out which girls I like and which are not worth the energy of approaching. You are an openhearted person that talks to everyone. So she will ch oose the SOI of her choice which is always the best you can get. And her friends can not argue with you being approached by her. done right. Walking up to a woman an tell her: “Hey. And you have to keep that frame during the whole approach. EC is a direct opener and can hook even if it is non-verbal. … (tell her that you want to talk to her / get to know her)…” Same structure. Sometimes she will approach you while you are talking to the obstacles. No switching to lame AFC game or indirect game. I want to talk to you. The EC does the same. If you want to mirror her mood then do that before she catches EC. If you have the balls to give her an SOI with EC you should also have them to start a normal conversation with her without using indirect Openers. Juggler game will help you here. Of course the same rules apply as in the beginners edition. you are pretty. You will calibrate this and know exactly what to do in the right moment. Maybe a bit playful.” She will always choose automatically the best you can get anyways. The moment you have EC do not change your mood and if you want to then do it slowly. It just says “…. On some days I do have an awful amount of girls looking down very fast without smiling. 90% of the communication is non-verbal communication… so she will understand your SOI. If you drink out of a glass most girls will look away – I do not know what the secret is behind this but somehow it is not appropriate to look at someone drinking out of a glass. Mystery Method (with the indirect opener) needs negs and DHV routines to show DHV. Straw – oral fixation. If it comes to approaching. If you happen create a very deep trance you BL doesn‟t matter at all as she won‟t notice your BL. I want to talk to you. Just because she is so attracted to you that she can‟t stand not talking to you. then just don‟t approach. But you have to keep in mind that you create a frame when opening direct. Next thing important to realize is that after giving her the SOI it is her turn to earn your approach. only that it doesn‟t say a specific SOI. I have to admit that I approach only these that sent me an SOI or IOI. The EC look is a direct opener as there is the SOI at the beginning of communication. If she is LSE or there are a few CBs around her you might go with a situational opener into the group.” Makes you the best sexual material she will probably find that night or even that month! Th e EC is nonverbal of course but as I said it works the same way the direct opener does – even concerning DHV. ” It has a completely different meaning. This is so powerful because it will destroy her power of her reaction. If she doesn‟t say anything she is not likely to be attracted to you. You presence and personali ty has to say: “I don‟t need your answer. The sentence is a question and if she is in a good mood she will provide you the information.” This way you will hook with either the EC or another SOI opener like: “I really like your curly hair. Just start looking very sexual and create a sexual tension. Before doing so it might be useful to create an easy-going mood. You will go through this on your own and you will do it. B) In a concrete situation it makes sense. The subcommunication with your BL is much more important than verbal communication. But my brother has not the skills to use his eyes the way I do and so mine are more succesfull. Actually it‟s 200% because the girl likes to give you her 100% as well.” The PUA will make clear that only he can give her such a co mpliment.” If she answers it is her own f ault as she now is in the claws of an extremely high skilled PUA (this would be you). Just by giving her the unique compliment.with the vibe that come with it. When done right she will mirror you and go into that vibe. If she mirrors the other emotions you had before she is very likely to mirror the sexual vibe too. The Bedroom look The secret weapon to get her in a sexual vibe. I just want to give you a compliment because I feel like that. Compared to the Icy blue eyes of my brother mine are really lame. I‟m going to break down the concept first: You go up to a girl and say: “Hey. we are very special in this very moment. which means you do never expect her to give you IOIs and kino and whatsoever by delivering her the SOI. The girl will realize that and will take it as a DHV. And you might want to venue change very soon with her to give h er the physical isolation she needs. Even if her friends stand right next to her or even if there are 25 thousand othe r guys at the concert. The pure words will tell her that you want information on if she thinks whether the band is awesome or not. And you walk up to a girl and say these words. this is just what you expected! If you get an AI or IOI – perfect! This is just what you expected. Now the sentence isn‟t a question any more though it has a question mark. even if she told you to piss off. and I am a member of the male species and therefore I am attracted by your boobs and butt. If she tells you to piss off – perfect! It was your intention to have her say that. As if you are in bed with her and the two of you are just about to drop pants. His compliment was special and unique and so she will know that you are an unique person.” And this isolates her. The secret of the direct opener is isolation. You have to take 100% responsibility for the opener and what happens after that. The PUA will open with the exact same words but with a different subcommunication: “Hey I noticed that you have this very special butt and I as a single and individual person I find it very attractive how your pants shape this wonderful piece of your body. What to Talk About It doesn‟t matter. You . Then the words are completely unimportant as she will know that they are an excuse for you and her to talk to each other. he is not exchangeable with any other guy in the room. Not uniquely your boobs and butt but these bodyparts in general. So the moment you decide to approach you know that you are on your own. It‟s more of a psychic isolation. She subordinates a nd can approach you this way. If you get none – perfect. There is something betw een us that the others do not know.” Not so good – every guy can do that on every girl. D) You have EC with her and subcommunicate “Hey you are kind of cute. Just game on. And you also have to know that what you do is unique. Lets say you are in a pub and there is a band playing some music. It is just letters next to each other. The same rules apply to the EC opener. The colour of your eyes does not matter. She will know that your EC is a unique one. Your buddies back there can not help you any more. Create vibes and suppo rt them with your verbal communication. You are a very special person for her because there are not many guys that hit on her in the same way you do. Banter a lot and be playful and then start the sexual vibe. You tell her: “You and me.” His subcommunication will say: “I only give you this compliment to get laid. I myself do have some pretty uninteresting brown with green. If you make her believe that you knew what is coming and you even made her act the exact way that she did – she will think that you have incredible social skills. If you mastered that point we can go to the second most important: You have to deal with every answer you get. Be self-confident and on your own when you deliver an opener – verbal or nonverbal. And you do not hook with your eyes but with the vibe that comes with them. AFCs open like that: “Hey you are pretty I‟d like to talk to you. (DHV) And now she will be attracted because you knew how she would react. I will accept sexual contact with you as you have these bodyparts. I think it could be nice to talk to you. isn‟t this band awesome?” A) The pure words are completely senseless. Most important thing is to be not outcome dependent. It is very sexy. She will be more likely to do so if you just act like that. If she gives you an answer she jumps into a hoop that you didn‟t even open up. Now it depends on the woman what will happen.” And then you walk over and say the exact same words. Isolation. C) If you subcommunicate that you do not want an answer but just say “Hey. isn‟t this band awesome?” because you actually want to say “This band is awesome. The moment you approach her you isolate her and you from the rest of the room. I do that a lot. You can anchor attraction. Throwing mean words at each other and stuff. How is that with you sister?” While talking this stuff you create a vibe. It is a very friendly tool of seduction and makes your approach look very natural. Communication is based on meaning. If your vibe starts to decrease you need B to gather information. Sometimes you will be able to open them again. Talking about things you love or persons you love will create the right vibe. E. I have tons of girls telling me that I am so natural and fun to talk to. sometime D.” You didn‟t want to have an answer anyways… you just wanted a chat. visual or even smell or taste) and a unique experience (an emotion or image or sound or taste or whatever you want to anchor). There were times when we hated each other and started beating up each other. It probably works best on persons that have a primary visual kind of learning and anchoring things. Best thing is that you can do this technique while other people are present. smell and taste of the food. The Mastery Edition works best combined with direct game. If she has EC with you for the second time the time window for the approach is still open but will close soon. With the EC you can open windows very fast. Second chances are for losers. We will do something similar. Timewindows There is the idea of windows that open up during a communication. No sense communication is no communication is no communication at all) If you have a vibe going on you may use D. Our unique experience is a good emotion that she has. It works everywhere and on everyone. (The first stage is never used.” PUA: “Older or younger? Brother or sister?“ HB: „An older sister. he did. Anchoring is actually just connecting thoughts in your brain. She might even answer with something that is not related to your question. Sometimes B.: PUA: “Do you have siblings?” HB: “yes. I stand a lot in front of girls and know that the window is open and I do not know how I did it within this short amount of time. the smell of the food and the taste of the food are the unique experiences). After a bit of training and doing that unique action again and again. He created saliva just by hearing a bell. You can calibrate on these windows and you will exactly know when a window is open and when it is closed. not like the other idiots that approach them. isn‟t this band awesome?” and if she understands that you use this verbal excuse to make the non -verbal direct opener (your EC) clear to her. It is my top weapon of mass seductio. and here you got it. always combined with the unique experience the dog anchored ringing a bel l with the image. Your EC will make sure that she mirrors the vibe because the EC is the transmitter for vibes. her attraction will decrease by every second. Later on the dog didn‟t need to the foods image. Perhaps I will give you an Advanced Edition in time. It is also very useful to read something about NLP and Awareness Radius this increase the power of your EC a lot. rapport emotions or a sexual vibe. I changed my hairstyle or style to dress. I think you can understand the main points in this text. deepen the information on the topic and then create a vibe again. So use the first chance to enter the window when it is open. On every high of her emotions you can use a very special EC (this is the unique action). I missed a few dozen kissCloses just because I was so shocked how fast I got there. Anchoring with your EC A small bonus: This can be combined with AR Fucking. Sometimes you open windows without even knowing how you did it. audible. I thought about an advanced edition but I think you‟ll manage it. Do y ou look up to your sister? I just ask because my brother always kinda looked up to me. People create anchors all the time. In a dialogue you use different stages of this communication. There are windows for about everything but it might be useful to calibrate at least on these for escalation. After 5 times you can give her the look and she will have good emotions. But as the text is so freaking long I am sure I made some . This technique took me half a year to calibrate it this way. Most of these windows open only once during a conversation. The EC usually opens up the window for an approach. I study English and I tried my best. like “What‟s your name. They will not see what you are doing. and sometimes something between those two stages. To create a good anchor you need a unique action (which can be kinaesthetic.g. If you do not approach after the second EC. Reading about Gunwitch Method will help you with sexual EC. So whenever she feels good you give her a special look. There are also windows for kissCloses and #C and fC. Like the Pavlov dog: Pavlov rang a bell (unique action) every time the dog saw food (the visual food. smell or taste to experience the same emotions he did while eating. But even if we see us every three months there is some kind of connection between us. but it is hard work. It is the second edition of this post and the gap between beginners and mastery edition got quite big. so did he. And sometimes I changed my hairstyle within a period when we didn‟t see each other for months … and when we got together again he changed his hairstyle to the one I had. If you want sexual vibe you want to talk about more sexual stuff. Whenever I changed my taste of music. but even then he looked up to me. I hope you have fun with this technique. Juggler technique or Gunwitch Method.say: “Hey.” PUA: “Same with my younger brother.“ PUA: „Do you have a close connection to her?” HB: “no not really we see each other about every three months. This is actually a theory taken from linguistics which is a subject taught at university. You will have to live with them. I got more of this stuff but is takes an awful lot of time to translate this stuff and as long as I do not get paid for it you will have to read my texts in German. Like the concept how speech does make sense and how a sentence is perceived by the hearer. . If there is a chapter that you do not understand by any chance you can send me an email (pua[at]jeansjoe. This is probably the only technique I will translate for the English community. There are some really advanced concepts in this and sometimes you do not need to understand them in order to use them.mistakes.com) and I will fix that and explain it to you.