A free guide to lying detectionReleased by http://www.2knowmyself.com The ultimate source to self understanding By M.Farouk Radwan A free guide to lying detection released by http://www.2knowmyself.com The ultimate source for self understanding 1 heart-beating. How can that be of use? Well.etc.com The ultimate source for self understanding 2 .. he would never believe you because he has seen the smile on your face. I'm talking about the unconscious ones. he has seen the inconsistency between what you are saying and the facial expression you're showing him.. in other words. We all know that nobody smiles when they're sad. sweating. This article is not about intuitive or logical tricks. Would he believe you? No. but if you're looking towards the upper right side then you're recalling an image. if their words are consistent with their unconscious signals then they are saying the truth. if someone is looking in the upper left direction as while asking about something then he's probably constructing an image of the lie he's about A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. then told him that you are feeling sad. that is if they feel bad while lying (For more information. think about it. They also avoid eye contact and generally use negative evaluation gestures. check the full page on a liar’s body language below) • Eye Accessing Cues Mismatch: According to NLP. but I'm not talking about conscious inconsistencies here.. For example. they can have control over their facial expressions and tone of voice.How to know if someone is lying to you Suppose you met your friend with a smile on your face. looking towards the upper left side means that you are constructing an image in your mind.2knowmyself. it provides lying detection techniques that are based on deep psychological concepts and proven facts. otherwise they are lying. the direction the eye takes reflects the order taking place in the brain at the time. These unconscious signals are what we will be using to detect if they are lying. Your subconscious mind controls many of your involuntary functions like that of breathing. but their unconscious mind still controls all other involuntary signals like body language and respiration rate. Signs that Show when Someone Is Lying The following are signs you should look for when attempting to spot a liar: • Body Language: Liars usually hide their palms and almost never sit straight while telling a lie. When someone attempts to lie. Accordingly. trying to get his body to occupy smaller space (it's almost like one's A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. this is one of the signs that he could be lying.2knowmyself. talk as much as you can about the subject in order to keep him anxious.com The ultimate source for self understanding 3 . but since he can't go anywhere this will be reflected in his posture and body movement. • I Want to Hide: A liar will usually have an unconscious desire to hide. add something completely new. that would result in slower speech or even several complete stops to provide him/her with time to think about what he's about to say next. Try to talk about anything related to the situation without addressing it directly and see if he tries to jump out of it into another topic. (See the full guide to eye accessing cues and liar detection below). the person will usually be making up his talk as he goes along. • Speaking Slowly: When lying. or remove something that he has been previously mentioned.to tell. Regardless of the type of inconsistency. he will one time forget a word. the story is more likely to change every single time it is narrated. a liar will almost always have his back bent a little. One of your concerns should be trying to spot his state of anxiety. he will usually lack assertiveness while lying. with various degrees depending on how professional the liar is. • Feeling Anxious: Almost anyone who lies feels anxious. Check out anxiety body language in order to be able to detect anxiety. His tone of voice will be lower and he will appear to be less confident. • Avoiding the Subject: A person who wants to hide something will usually try to avoid bringing it up in the conversation or even talking about anything remotely related to it. • Inconsistencies in the Story: In different places and times. it shows he is lying. • Lack of Assertiveness: Unless that person is a special agent who is professionally trained to lie. The conclusion is that Joe wants to say: "Mom. See the guide for full body language information). • Body Language: As soon as you change the subject or stop asking about the topic. sweating and jiggling the contents of pockets) to a state of relaxation (breathing deeply and taking up open gestures). a liar's body language may change from a state of anxiety (fingernail biting. there will be a misalignment between his voice and his words. • Fake Smiles: A true smile is the result of the movement of different facial muscles. Fake smiles only result in the movement of the muscles around the mouth. • Lack of Alignment: If the person is telling the truth.2knowmyself. that's because one usually doesn’t consider one's honest answer to be strong evidence. Believe me. telling you that he is really interested in a topic as he leans back in the chair and his head not tilted back may also indicate that he's lying. this time is not like all other times. Take this as an example: Mom: Joe . all the other muscles remain in place. cheek muscles and the muscle groups below the eyes. I haven't been anywhere near them. you know I can't eat sweets because my teeth are hurting me. (Check this article for more information on body language of the interested). his body language and tone of voice will match his spoken words. However. he will probably try to prove it with as much evidence as one can. did you eat those sweets? Joe: of course not. did you eat those sweets? A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. • Avoiding Direct Answers Mom: Joe. anyone in the house can confirm this fact. he'll tell you I haven't. This in turn leads to a few wrinkles in the face.com The ultimate source for self understanding 4 . For example. I really am not lying this time".bending inwards on oneself). You can ask Tom. fidgeting. One does so because one's subconscious mind is thinking that if one's posture is made smaller then one might go unnoticed. • Giving too much Evidence When Telling the Truth: when someone who is used to lying tells the truth. especially below the eyes. if this person is lying. a person's eye could move to this direction when asked about the color of his dream car for example. On the other hand. Visual Construction (VC): A person looking towards that direction is constructing the image of a visual scene. Have you ever noticed eye movements? Have you ever noticed how people's eyes move from one direction to the other upon being asked a question? Research results show that there is a connection between what someone is thinking of at the moment and the direction his eye moves to. I just got home half an hour ago. The six possible directions that the eye could be headed to when thinking about something are: upper right. A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. upper left. If your hands slip when shaking hands. • Sweating If you keep repeating a question over and over. eye accessing cues • Upper left. that's because they think that everybody is lying too.Joe: Mom. then this is an indication of the presence of sweat on his face. middle left . lower right and lower left .com The ultimate source for self understanding 5 . For a right handed person who's facing you. If the lighting of the room doesn't change and this person's face shines a little more. a thin film of sweat will form on a liar's face and palms. Mom: Did you eat those sweets??? Joe: You know I don’t like sweets that much. Each direction represents a function that is currently taking place inside the mind. • Skepticism: People who always lie tend to be more skeptic. people who rarely lie tend to believe just about anything because they assume that no body lies. this may be the indication of the presence of sweat on his hands. middle right. the following is an illustration of what the different eye movements could mean (Note that the following directions are describing the eye positions of someone who is facing you): NLP.2knowmyself. the truth could be that he does not have a car at all. there are some things you should be aware of if you are going to use such a method. Auditory Construction (AC): A person looking towards that direction is constructing a sound. on the other hand the AC direction would show that he's lying. Below are a list of guidelines you should stick to if A free guide to lying detection released by 6 http://www. that's the direction his eyes could move to when asked something like. • Middle left. Visual Remembering (VR): A person looking towards that direction is remembering the image of a visual scene. Eye-accessing cues and liar detection: This can be very useful to know. asking someone about the color of his car should have his eyes move to the upper right (visual remembering). that's the direction the person's eye would wander to upon being asked a question like. If it heads to the visual construction instead. Kinesthetic (K): This is the direction someone's eyes would move towards when accessing his feelings. that's the direction someone would look towards when asked about the color of his car. CAUTION: Note that using such a method to detect whether someone is lying or not is very risky. it can help you figure out if someone is telling the truth or not.• Upper right. Auditory Remembering (AR): A person looking towards that direction is remembering a sound.2knowmyself. what do you think he will say when you meet him tomorrow? • Middle Right. Auditory Digital (AD): This is the direction someone's eyes move to when having an inner-self conversation. The same goes when you ask someone a question like: what did Sam tell you yesterday? The AR direction would show the process of him remembering the conversation. what did Sam tell you yesterday? • Lower left. that's the direction the person's eye would be directed to when asked a question like. how did it feel to fail that exam?" • Lower right.com The ultimate source for self understanding . then he's probably constructing an image instead of remembering it. • If the person in question is trying to remember something stored in his short term memory. remember that one sign is never enough. Note that this only happens with people who consider lying to be a bad thing. there are a lot of noticeable signs that can be detected when a person is lying. Beginning with the simple methods. A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. in such a case all you have to do is ask him a question that you already know the answer to.2knowmyself. they may just stay focused towards the middle. then when telling the lie he will negatively evaluate what he is saying and will thus make one of the negative evaluation gestures (touching nose or ears). • Some people tend to remember by focusing and refocusing pupils without having their eyes move towards any direction. Body language and the state of lying: Just like any other emotional state. The signs you should be looking for are: • If that person is not used to lying or if his values and beliefs make him perceive lying as unacceptable. Doing so. If you are familiar with these gestures. your job is to observe where his eyes go. and not with everyone. there's nothing you can do about it. Noticing two or more of these signs means that that person is possibly lying. lying brings about some changes to your gestures and posture. else you will find that everyone is a liar!! • The person in question may have the directions reserved (the VC and the VR are reserved).you're going to use this method. he doesn’t like the fact that he's lying. noticing more than three rises the percentage of that person lying and so on. you will be able to detect liars right away. in such a case. the "liar detection". You can then ask him the question you want the answer to and observe if his eyes go towards a different direction from that he looked towards when you asked him the first question.com The ultimate source for self understanding 7 . his eyes may not looks towards any specific direction. Negative evaluation gestures in body language are done when someone considers something to be negative. you'll be able to know the direction he uses for remembering and thus the other will be that of construction. but will keep looking all over the place.2knowmyself.• Eye contact weakens drastically when someone is lying.com The ultimate source for self understanding 8 . see body language and straight back for more information on this topic ) Lying Detection Final Note A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. people who lie usually either put their palms down or keep their hands inside their pockets. See the pictures below illustrating the differences between someone who is lying and someone who is telling the truth • A lying person's back is rarely up straight and the posture is hardly never upright (unless he is proud of lying. If you want to know everything about eye contact and body language then read this guide • A lying person will hardly ever show his palms as showing your palms is a sign of being honest and truthful. the person is not going to look you in the eye. you should then start to see if any of these signs apply to them. if you suspect that someone is lying. Thus.It's very important to know that there are many other variables involved in this process. If you think that this is some kind of marketing then see what other visitors say about 2knowmyself A free guide to lying detection released by http://www. the more likely that person is lying.com The ultimate source for self understanding 9 . I suggest that you use these methods for decision support and not for sole judgment of others.2knowmyself. it’s a place where you will find effective techniques that are backed by psychology and that are presented in an obvious and understandable format. of course the more signs you find. 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