Attraction Mastery

Attraction Mastery 50 Amazing Tips For Guaranteed Success with Women By Scott Patterson FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Disclaimer No part of this publication may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, mechanical or electronic, including photocopying or recording, or by any information storage and retrieval system, or transmitted by email without permission in writing from the publisher. While all attempts have been made to verify the information provided in this publication, neither the author nor the publisher assumes any responsibility for errors, omissions, or contrary interpretations of the subject matter herein. This book is for entertainment purposes only. The views expressed are those of the author alone, and should not be taken as expert instruction or commands. The reader is responsible for his or her own actions. The advice in this book is meant for responsible adults, age 18 and over, and is not meant for minors. Adherence to all applicable laws and regulations, including international, federal, state and local governing professional licensing, business practices, advertising, and all other aspects of doing business in the US, Canada or any other jurisdiction is the sole responsibility of the purchaser or reader. Neither the author nor the publisher assume any responsibility or liability whatsoever on the behalf of the purchaser or reader of these materials. Any perceived slight of any individual or organization is purely unintentional. 3 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing you may have trouble talking to women or thinking of what to say in order to make them attracted to you. I've been busy helping hundreds of guys learn how to succeed with women. I get a lot of questions about how to meet and attract women. So sit back. In fact. here are some of the common questions I receive from my readers: As you can see. For instance. read these 50 tips. So for the past months. then implement them into your life! 4 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you're probably missing golden opportunities to meet beautiful and interesting women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Introduction Let's be honest here… The dating scene can be quite intimidating! While there might be thousands of available women in your area. you have almost no chance of success if you don't know how to approach and or get them interested in you. I've discovered that many guys need help in a variety of areas with women. From my experience with my website. That's where this ebook comes in… I've taken my best tips created this report to give you a crash course on attracting women. Now if you're like most guys. The more confidence you have. you'll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it. 5 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . So remind yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life. By practicing these exercises. try one of these activities. the better off you'll be! So what should you do if you lack self confidence around women? Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem: Learn to Relax Before approaching women.How to Improve Your Self Confidence If you've ever tried to attract a woman. So if you're serious about building self confidence. Try Meditation & Exercising There are certain activities (meditation. including the times when you're trying to pick up women. If you can remove all expectations you'll become more relaxed around women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Mental Game Tip #1 . Then concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation you're about to have. yoga. and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. then you know your success depends on your self-confidence. put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body. Then whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not feeling confident. Be Positive at All Times It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women. just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities. you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Use Your Strengths One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person. So no matter what you're feeling inside. you'll eventually develop this personality trait! 6 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . What's funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality. By mentally reviewing your strengths. ALWAYS have a upbeat attitude and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. there are a number of strong character traits you should develop. Sometimes the best way to attract a woman is to work on YOURSELF first. you have to learn… How to become a MAN! The truth is a LOT of women are fed up with dating guys who act like little boys. And these core set of traits can help you become more naturally attractive to women. In other words.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #2. then you’ll stand out from these low status men. you'll exude a variety of positive characteristics.What virtues should you develop? Well in my opinion. By being a REAL man. The question is. when I came to a sudden realization. So why is it important to become a MAN? Well it's simple.How to Be the MAN That Women Want Today I was reading a book on changing your lifestyle. Here are just a FEW of them: λ λ λ λ 7 Honor Integrity Passion for life Goal orientation Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . If you can learn what is attractive to women. family and even strangers Leadership Courage and conviction Decisiveness Humor Now you might be overwhelmed by the number of traits I’ve described. then more you’ll naturally attract women. But if you want to become more attractive to women. I guarantee the more you work on yourself.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here λ λ λ λ λ λ λ λ Confidence Humility Calmness under pressure Generosity to friends. then you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of your life. Then discipline yourself to improve on EACH of these character traits. I challenge you to take each trait and rate yourself on how well you fit this description. It definitely sounds like a lot to work on. 8 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #3. Then they build up a LOT of anxious feelings about initiating conversations with women. Instead of only approaching a girl during your trips to bar or club. If you talked to a female who was attached to another man. Back then.Eliminate Your Approach Anxiety Approach anxiety happens to the best of us! We’ve all had that terrifying fear of walking up to women and initiating a conversation. there was REAL danger in approaching women. approach anxiety is a NORMAL feeling that we all get. The best “Pick Up Artists” in the world are the guys who overcame these feelings. 9 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . The solution to this problem is pretty easy. The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to early human development. Now if you want to overcome your own anxious feelings. Remember that we've all been at this point in our lives. But should you let it control you? The obvious answer is NO! Although approach anxiety is commonplace. you could get smacked over the head with a club. you should initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day. As you can see. you should NEVER let it control you. then you should follow the same technique I used to move beyond approach anxiety… Talk to every woman you encounter! Most guys who want success with women make the mistake of ONLY approaching women during a specific time during the week. Approach anxiety is something which all men have at some point in their lives. 10 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Instead you're using opportunities to PRACTICE your conversation skills and reduce nervousness. Just start talking to them in a normal manner. If you make it a habit to talk to women EVERYWHERE you go. For instance. The point I'm trying to make is you can quickly ELIMINATE your approach anxiety if talking to women becomes second nature. all you have to do is initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day. To get started. it'll become second nature. here are some girls you can talk to: λ λ λ λ λ λ Checkout girls at stores Women who sit near you in class Any girl who helps you in clothing stores Females who work with you Women that you encounter on trains and subways Any girl waiting on the line with you Remember that you DON'T have to use a smooth opener or conversation starter. But you should NEVER let it control you.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here The beauty of this technique is you do NOT have to worry about trying to "pick up" these women. While John knows he MIGHT get rejected. then you're severely decreasing your chances at meeting and attracting the kind of women you want. He's able to overcome HIS fear of rejection because he acts on instinct rather then dwell on what could go wrong. Every time you see an interesting woman. If you have this phobia. but there is something to be learned about initiating conversations without thinking about it. The technique is simple. The simple truth is many guys have built up a MAJOR fear of rejection. then you need to take drastic measures to get over your feelings of possible rejection. rather then "trying to score". If you're uncomfortable with talking to ANY girl. you approach WITHOUT hesitation. But what he does is NOT for the weak of heart. I don't always agree with some of John's routines. 11 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . All you need to do is focus on enjoying the conversation and having fun with the girl. All you have to do is implement a trick my friend John taught me called "Going Kamikaze". To be honest. he's able to remove all negative thoughts from his head and focus on the moment.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #4 – Overcome Your Fear of Rejection One major stumbling block to your success with women comes down to your ability to handle rejection. He succeeds with a lot of women simply because he has no fear of rejection. Now there is a way to quickly overcome this fear. A great trick I learned about eliminating the fears of rejection is to understand it's more important to think about the present moment rather then any negative thoughts which you might have. So if you see an interesting woman. What's funny is when you approach lots of women you'll discover it's not as bad as you think. 12 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . If you follow my advice and learn how to approach automatically you'll discover your fear of rejection can be overcome. After awhile your fears will slowly diminish. try to reprogram yourself to approach without hesitation. approach her with the SOLE intention of just striking up a conversation.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Instead of letting your fears control you. When you tell yourself that you're JUST having a conversation becomes easier to eliminate your fears. And your overall success will increase. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks. But because of their supplicating behavior. While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting women. you HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any woman you're trying to attract. This means you should create a strict set of standards and then ONLY do things if they comply with your personal code. they end up repelling women instead of attracting them. 13 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Furthermore. you'll get rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. there are strict rules for attracting them.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #5 – Stop Being the “Nice Guy” In this tip. This will help you transform yourself into the kind of guy who all women desire. the nice guy presents no challenge to women. Most of them want a guy who interests them and presents a challenge. you should challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations. Typically these men are always ready to buy gifts do favors for girls "they like". I am going to talk about "The Nice Guy". Now there are a lot of guys who try too hard with women. As a result. Without going into too much female psychology. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here The final way to stop being the proverbial nice guy is to learn how to be confident around women. This is especially true if they challenge or try to reject you. By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" attitude, you'll act like a man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of an interaction with women. In fact, you'll look like you're not trying too hard. So if you want to stop being a nice guy, you should set up a code of conduct and transform yourself into a confident guy. Then you'll become an interesting and exciting person. 14 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #6 – Overcome Your Sticking Points When it comes to women, we ALL have certain strengths and weaknesses. For instance, some guys are great at approaching women, but can’t create attraction. And others can display a confident personality, but don’t know how to use openers. Unfortunately being “great with women” comes down to your ability to OVERCOME your weakness rather then relying on your strengths. What does this mean to you? Well, if you want to increase your success with women, then you MUST identify the specific obstacles (Often known as ‘Sticking Points’) that are holding you back. Then once you’ve spotted these weaknesses, you should work on fixing them. I suggest a simple technique. Analyze the ways you try to meet women and break down the different obstacles into SMALL manageable steps. By doing it this way, you’ll identify and laser-target the problems you’re experiencing. For instance, here are a few sticking-points that affect a LOT of guys: λ λ λ λ λ λ Being controlled by approach anxiety Showing low status body language Knowing the right way to approach women How to start talking to women Understanding signs of attraction and when a woman is flirting How to go from an opener to having a REAL conversation 15 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here λ λ Getting a woman’s number and setting up a date Knowing how to progress from a date to a *physical* encounter As you can see, there are a lot of ‘sticking points’ that hold guys back. Perhaps you have a few of them. Part of being successful with women is accepting that you aren’t perfect. But it’s also about identifying your problem areas and having the courage to fix what you can. My advice is to analyze the things you’re doing wrong. Then FIX them! If you can overcome your sticking points, then you’ll experience a dramatic growth in your game. Ultimately this will help you transform into the kind of guy who can naturally attract a woman 16 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing It's important to remember that failure is a positive not a negative. One of the more common reasons for this anxiety is worrying that women will mock or ridicule you in some way. You should learn to use it as a learning 17 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . A lot of men are afraid to simply approach a woman and initiate a conversation. Just understand that failure is part of the whole process. a guy is a "Hall of Fame Player" if he gets a hit 3 or 4 times for every 10 at bats. What if I fail?" This is a TOO common statement I hear from guys. Now I know anxiety is a commonplace thing. you'll miss out on many opportunities to talk to women. it's better to face this fear than run away from it. In this sport. It can prevent you from taking that first step towards attracting a woman. If you allow fear to control your actions. And here's the reason why… A great comparison for dating is comparing it to baseball. you should learn to embrace your failures. You should follow this same philosophy when you're talking to a woman. but you should NEVER allow it to dictate what you can or can't do.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #7 – The TRUTH About *Failure* "Oh my God. I can't just walk up and talk to her. Instead of letting it control your actions. They're showing their fear because of one thing: FAILURE. Even the guys with the BEST approach techniques will meet a woman who won't be interested in them. While this might happen. The fear of rejection is an incredible powerful emotion. 18 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Just analyze the interaction and ask yourself: λ λ λ λ λ Did I talk to fast/slow/loud? Did I demonstrate higher status? Was she available or does she have a boyfriend? Did I successfully create a dynamic conversation? Was I funny. then you'll see a dramatic increase in your dating success. charming and confident? When evaluate your *performance*. So the next you "strike out" with a woman don't get frustrated. you can learn a lot from your mistakes. When you eliminate your fear of failure and understand that it's a GOOD thing.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here experience and use this opportunity to increase your overall "dating skill set". Then you can apply them when you next talk to a woman. or too fat. First off.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #8 – Don’t Worry About Your Looks When it comes to dating. some men feel their personal appearance prevents them from talking to women. while others are attracted to thin. too short. Whether they feel they're too bald. (While you might have different tastes. In addition women are PRIMARILY attracted to traits which are not based on personal appearance. Things like confidence.) Now what's interesting is women are attracted to different things then men. this type of girl is statistically found to be the most popular type of woman among men. So the question is this: Is your appearance THAT important? Well the short answer is NO. 19 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you can still be VERY successful with women. But let me explain my rationale… As men we're primarily attracted to the stereotypical "Hot Girl". intellectual types. goal orientation and humor are all traits which can attract a woman. each woman has varied tastes in men. Some love large hulking men. blonde-haired. Obviously this is good news! No matter what faults you might find in your own appearance. What they find attractive really depends on their personality. and large-breasted models. guys have a LOT of fears. And according to popular men's magazines all guys desire thin. You'll be able to attract beautiful women through your own unique personality. Instead try to focus on these things: λ λ λ λ λ Developing your teasing/flirting skills. Building your self confidence Learning the *right* way to start a conversation Being able to demonstrate higher value Eliminating self limiting beliefs When you develop these core traits your looks won't matter. So the moral of this post is to STOP worrying about your looks. 20 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here If you know how to demonstrate an attractive personality then it becomes EASY to succeed with women. How you view the world has a direct impact on your success with women.The REFRAMING Technique The reframing technique is easy to learn. This means 21 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .Failure Can Bring You Success The way you view an event determines how much you can learn from each experience! What do I mean? Well. Whenever you’re faced with a potentially negative outcome. you learn to discover the positive results from the situation. If you beat yourself up every time a woman rejects you. On the other hand. Regardless of the outcome! In order to do this. then you won’t make any progress with your dating life. you’ll discover how to learn from each experience and grow as a man! Awhile back I discovered an interesting thing about men and how they view rejection. he uses “self-talk” to beat himself up.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #9. he thinks there must be something wrong with him! So in order to experience DRAMATIC growth in your dating life. Whenever a guy is turned down by a woman. If a guy is rejected by a girl. you can try a simple technique I learned from NLP and cognitive psychology. it’s simple. you must learn to develop a positive outlook on EACH interaction with a woman. if you develop a positive attitude about life. you have concrete proof that the opener does NOT work for you. Simply by initiating conversations with this many groups. In order to MASTER your success with women. And by implementing the “reframing technique”. And by doing this regularly. However. You look at this situation and examine what benefit you’ve just received.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here asking yourself what BENEFIT you just received from this “negative” situation. you should adopt a positive outlook at everything you experience. You head over to your local bar and approach 10 groups of women. By being “rejected” by 10 women. I’ve discovered that reframing is an excellent way to LEARN from each experience. you’ll experience dramatic success with women. Here’s an example of how reframing would work: Say you learned a brand new opener that you want to test out. you’ll discover that every negative outcome will help you grow as a person! 22 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . YOU understand the importance of reframing. While you may think it sounds like a lot of “psycho-babble”. Plus by approaching 10 groups of women. This means that you have to go back and find a new way to approach women. you’ve learned that approaching isn’t as hard as you once thought. you’ve just acquired ten new experiences you can use to overcome your approach anxiety. The problem is all 10 groups reject you! Most guys would view this as a negative experience and feel that they’re not “good-looking enough” to attract a woman. (This is a bad thing to do) So the question is how can you initiate a conversation without using a pick up line? 23 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . What happens is these guys see interesting women. Typically they make the mistake of reciting a corny pick up line they heard from their friends. Now let me tell you a little secret about pick up lines… THEY NEVER WORK! Sorry for shouting.How to Start a Conversation "How can I initiate a conversation with an attractive woman?" This is ONE major question I receive all the time from the readers of my newsletter. but they actively telegraph your interest. but have NO CLUE how to approach and start talking to them. Not only are pick up lines offensive to women. but it drives me nuts when I hear some ass use a cheesy pick up line straight from the 70's.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Approaching Women Tip #10. You use it to begin a conversation which gets women talking instead of putting them in an awkward situation. All you have to do is use an OPENER! What is an opener? Basically an opener is ANY conversation starter you use which attracts the interest and attention of the women you're approaching. Openers work because: 1) 2) 3) 4) You're not telegraphing your intention Women love to give their opinions You can act funny AND interesting Their answers can be used to seed a conversation topic The key to crafting the perfect opener is to make it an open-ended question which involves all the people in the group you're approaching. So the opener should NEVER be a question that can be answered with a quick YES or NO response. When used correctly you appear as a guy who is innocently asking a woman's opinion. Instead the conversation starter should get the group talking and make them interested in what you have to say. All that's required is for you to walk up to a group.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Well it's simple. ask their opinion and get them talking. It differs from a pick up line because it sparks conversations and solicits their opinion. Also openers don't come across as sleazy and creepy. 24 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Try to fabricate an opener from your life or use something which can develop into a great topic of conversation. Simply tell them that you were having a conversation with your buddy and you needed an opinion from different people. they won't care if told them that you would only take a few minutes of their time. they'll respond more positively to your opener.Make it Interesting and Funny In order to be perceived as an interesting guy you should keep your opener fun and lighthearted. If you attract their interest and attention. In other words. 25 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Now here are few rules you can use to craft a good opener: Step 1. you shouldn't seem like you're randomly walking around the room asking questions from random strangers. Step 2.Use a Time Constraint If a group thinks you'll only stay for a few minutes. Step 3.Give Them a Reason Why You’re Asking To make spark the curiosity of the woman you're approaching you need to give a reason WHY you're asking them a question. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Now that you understand the principles behind an opener. Just think of funny or interesting things within your life and then create an opener around it. be sure to take a look at the The Ultimate Approach system) 26 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . What you should do is sit down and create 3-4 different openers which match your personality. (For more on openers. it's time to create your own. negative thoughts could make you nervous about talking to her. It’s called ‘The Three Second Rule’ for approaching women. you’ll have NO chance of letting approach anxiety affect you. you give yourself ONLY three seconds before approaching her. When you practice talking to women ALL the time. And you might even “psych yourself out”. In other words when you hesitate on the approach. What’s interesting is ‘The Three Second Rule’ can make approach women by reflex. Once you think of an opener.“3 Second Rule” For Approaching Like I said before. you won’t have time to think about what could go wrong. If you do it enough. you can eliminate your approach anxiety by talking to every woman you encounter. In other words. Whenever you see an attractive woman. you approach her WITHOUT hesitation and initiate a conversation. you’ll diminish your chances of success. The process is simple. you’ll start 27 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . The idea behind this technique is to prevent approach anxiety. Then approaching them won’t seem as difficult. But when you only take three seconds to initiate a conversation. today I wanted to discuss a technique which is equally important.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #11. Now in addition to talking to every woman you see. this skill will come to you naturally. When you take a long time to approach. Instead you focus on what you want to say THEN approach her. 28 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here conversations without thinking about it! Then you’ll be a lucky guy who has very LITTLE approach anxiety. Now unless you have photographic memory.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #12. You can easily use your lighter to initiate a conversation. If you think ahead and carry certain "critical" things. you'll probably encounter a few women who need a light. by making certain preparations each night you'll experience a dramatic increase in your success. The items you carry can have a direct effect on your ability to attract a woman. What I mean is this. 2. you'll need some way to jot down a girl's digits.Five Items You Should Always Carry If you want to succeed with women. 29 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .A Lighter While you might not be a smoker it's still important to carry a lighter.A Pen or Cell Phone One of your primary goals when meeting women is to get a phone number or set up a date. During the course of an evening. then you have to remember a lesson many us learned as a Boy Scout: "Always be prepared" Yes. The following are 5 of the most important things you should carry every time you go out to meet women: 1. That's why it's ALWAYS important to carry a pen or cell phone with you. you'll be prepared for specific scenarios which come up in the dating game. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here 3- A Camera Having a camera is a great way to demonstrate higher value around women. When working a bar/club environment, it's important to be perceived as fun and exciting. You can use a camera to demonstrate this quality by taking fun pictures of you and your friends. Also a camera is a great way to initiate a conversation with a woman. Simply find an attractive girl and ask her to take a picture of your friends. Then after she takes the picture, you can use a cocky/funny routine to continue the conversation. 4- Gum or Breath Mints The quickest turn off to a woman is having bad breath. To prevent this, you should carry an assortment of breath mints and gum. Usually mint flavor gum or Altoids can dramatically improve your breath and will prevent you from offending any girl you've met. 5- Condoms Obviously you understand the importance of using condom. If your late-night adventures end in a sexual encounter, it's MANDATORY to carry protection with you. The responsible guy should be concerned with protecting both himself and his partner. So be smart and carry condoms with you. Like I said at the beginning of this article, it's important to be prepared for the common things that occur when you're meeting women. By carrying these 5 items, you'll prepare 30 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here yourself for all the different things which can occur during an evening. 31 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #13- Identify Her Attraction Signals Women constantly send you messages through their body language. Whether they’re attracted or repulsed by your presence, reading these cues can make ALL the difference when you’re trying to attract them. So if you don't detect their body language signals, you’ll COMPLETELY miss out on many golden opportunities. What’s interesting 90% of a woman's communication is done through her body language. (The guys who are successful with women KNOW how to read these subtle cues and can act according to what they see.) So if you DON’T know what women are telling you, then you’ll ONLY have a 10% chance of understanding what women really want. Why is it important to be able to read their body language? Well there are times when a woman will subtly use her body language to indicate interest. If you don’t know how to read these signs then you won’t know to approach or engage her in a conversation. Thus you might miss out on an incredible girl. What REALLY annoys me is there are some guys who IGNORE obvious signals from woman. Often I’ll see a girl purposely initiate eye contact with a guy, and he stands there doing nothing with a stupid expression on his face. She’s already demonstrated interest. So all he has to do is walk up and start a conversation. It’s that easy! 32 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing you’ll notice a WHOLE new world of subtle communication happening. After doing this for a couple of days. So the solution is this: Don't be like one of those guys who do nothing! Take the time to pay attention to women’s body language. If you learn how women flirt with their body language. Then all you have to do is walk up and start a conversation. But they seem to miss out on the subtle cues women send them. you can look for specific attraction signals. So if you ever encounter a situation where a girl is making eye contact.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here What’s insane is guys spend SO much time trying to "pick up chicks". Then once you become comfortable with their body language. Just get off your butt and do something! 33 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . then you can dramatically stand out from other guys. you know she’s probably interested in talking to you. If a girl is giving you direct eye contact. When you see a girl who locks eyes with you. So if you pay close attention. then you know you’re being given an invitation to approach her. you’ll discover women are sending obvious attraction signals. Next time you’re out. As gender roles evolve. give her a warm smile. When you receive a sign of attraction.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #14 – Look For Hidden Opportunities There will be times when an attractive woman will send you flirting signals. try to make eye contact with the different women you find attractive. then you know she is demonstrating a classic sign of interest. you should take action. If she smiles back or does a quick VERTICAL scan (ie: checking you out). So you don't have to 34 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Don't hesitate! Immediately walk up to her and initiate a conversation. you know she’s interested in you. Because she’s demonstrated a major sign of attraction. Obviously you're receiving an opportunity to approach this woman with very little risk of rejection. then you’ll have a great opportunity to talk to an interesting girl. This includes flirting. you'll miss out on a golden opportunity. So here's an easy technique to try. But when you don't do anything. If you can detect these signals. making “forward” eye contact and even approaching YOU. it's become socially acceptable for women to be obvious about their attraction to guys. 35 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . By taking the time to lock eyes with women and giving them time to check you out.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here worry about what to say or do. Just be natural in your approach and use a good opener. you're creating your own opportunities. you’ll discover it’s easy to initiate conversations with girls. If you regularly do this. MOST women will never travel alone. The best way to do this is to use an opener. A woman has a natural tendency to distrust ANY guy who approaches her when she doesn’t have the protective shield of her friends. But there is a MAJOR problem if you only approach women who are by themselves. Now the best strategy is to approach the group and talk to ALL of them. Then from their responses. That's the reason why some guys wait till a woman is alone before approaching her. And this is especially true when she’s surrounded by her friends. So this makes it quite challenging to find a girl who isn’t surrounded by her friends. When in a public setting. So the solution is simple. And even if you DO isolate a girl. you can transition into a conversation and demonstrate higher value. she’ll be standoffish.Approach GROUPS of Women Approaching a woman can be scary for a lot of guys. 36 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you have to become comfortable with approaching groups of girls and engaging them in a conversation. Not just the girl you find attractive. It’s a fact that attractive women are RARELY alone. This means at some point.You HAVE to learn how to approach GROUPS of women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #15. you can use an opener. Once they “like” you. But you have to realize that this is a natural feeling that all guys get. and work on your rapport/attraction building skills. For instance. it’ll become easy to shift your focus and work on the objection of your attention. Now you might be a little scared about approaching GROUPS of women. you bring her to a different area in the venue. From that point.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Just remember that your main objective for approaching a group of women to gain acceptance from EVERY person. tell a few stories/negs. I promise to bring her back. Then if you’re getting the enough indicators of interest. then “suddenly” notice the girl you like. you can isolate her.” After that. this feeling will quickly diminish! 37 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you talk t her and do some qualifying. If you understand the principles in this post and practice your approach. The best way to do this is to say something like: “Can I borrow {her name} for a couple of minutes. 38 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #16.It provides the first example of high status body language. You can also use eye contact to approach women. Whenever you’re out meeting women. What I recommend is simple. Strong eye contact means a lot of things to women: #1. allow your eye contact to hold SLIGHTLY longer then what’s considered socially acceptable. you know she’s probably willing to be approached.Make Strong Eye Contact As you know by now. you’re acting like you’re trying to figure out if you’re looking at something you like. Whenever you lock eyes with a woman. confidence is the key ingredient to demonstrating a high status personality. women find these guys to be confident and sexual. And this starts with the eye contact you give. you dramatically increase your success with women. What's interesting about this form of communication is it sends a different message to people.It shows that you’re used to being in control #2. When you approach with confidence.It demonstrates you’re not afraid of women #3. So how do you display a confident aura? Well. On the other hand. you can give her a simple smile. If she smiles back. based on their gender. Men will find lengthy eye contact to be a challenge or an aggressive action. In a way. Contrary to using openers. I’ve found the best is to show a dominant presence with your body language. this is a more natural way to start talking to women. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Confidence is necessary ingredient to creating attraction. If you feel like you lack this characteristic when talking to women. and you’ll find that it’s easier to display a more self-assured presence around women. 39 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . then I recommend you work on the eye contact you give. Simply follow the advice I gave. If you don't see any IOIs (Indicators of Interest). Then once she’s alone you can work on building more attraction and comfort. First you want to look for genuine signs of attraction. I reviewed basic body language when approach a group of women. As long as you demonstrate high status and transition to an interesting discussion.Isolating your target from her friends. you want to direct your attention to her and start building more direct attraction. At this point. then you know she is open to being isolated. The process of isolation is actually fairly simple. But you have to remember ONE important thing. The goal of any approach is to attract a specific woman.Isolation For Attraction A couple of days ago.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #17. The goal of any approach or opener is to get you into a conversation with a group. Now if you notice that you’re target is demonstrating a few flirt signals. If you’re simply talking to the group the whole night. Whenever you approach a group. then you should make a decision. (Ie: Your Target). I want to cover a related topic. By now her friends 40 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you should focus on ISOLATING her from her friends. Today. then you’ll minimize your chances of attracting your target. then you’ll find that most groups will accept you.switch your focus to another woman or cut the conversation short and move on. say to your target: “Hey ____ . Just remember that the best way to make a woman remember you during the initial interaction is if you make a lasting impression. I promise to bring her back” What you want to do is create a pretense for showing her something in a quieter location. I want to show you something” Then turn to her friends and say: “I’m going to borrow your friend for a bit. you can do a number of things like build more attraction. Then once you’ve isolated your target.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here will pick up on the fact they're developing a one-on-one conversation. When this becomes obvious. 41 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you’re also demonstrating that you have social intuition and you’re not going to do anything creepy. And the best way to do that is to get her away from her friends and work on establishing that connection. Or you can simply tell her that you want to walk around the venue a little bit and she should join you. establish rapport and initiate physical contact. By acknowledging her friends. you’ll be perceived as a confident and dominant guy! And here are six ways you can show incredible body language around women… #1 – Eradicate Weak Body Language The first step to fixing your body language is to eliminate all body language traits that are considered weak.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Attracting Women Tip #18. When you do this. If you want to demonstrate high status. you MUST become sensitive to the body language traits you’re displaying. It’s been said that almost 90% of your communication is done through non-verbal cues. some weak traits can include: λ λ λ 42 Having your hands in your pockets Fidgeting or showing nervous energy Talking to people with your arms folded Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . then you must know the secrets of giving off positive body language. If you’re not displaying the right kind of body language. Women can instantly detect a man who isn’t confident. For instance. So in order to make INSTANT improvement. Instead it can depend on the tone of your body language. then the best openers and routines won’t be able to help you! So the solution is simple.Demonstrate Confident Body Language Being attractive to women sometimes doesn’t depend on what you say. Work on Your Stance The way you stand can have a huge impact on how people will think of you. An easy way to eliminate your fear is subtly show your dominance and leadership by taking up space wherever your go. 43 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . #2.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here λ λ λ λ λ Slumping your head or shoulder down Looking uncomfortable in social situations Not taking up space Walking fast everywhere you go Leaning towards women during an initial conversation What’s interesting is you can make dramatic change to your body language simply by eliminating these behaviors. This is especially true in social situations. Here are a few rules for how you should stand: λ λ λ λ Keep your chin and head up Position your feet and legs at shoulder length apart Have your hands at your side or have only ONE hand holding a drink in front of you (Bar environments) Keep your back straight #3– Take Up Space The confident guys in the world are NOT afraid of others. you demonstrate a LACK of nervous and inferior body language traits 44 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you lean back and show that you’re comfortable You never let your eyes dart around a room You spread out and look comfortable when sitting down You breathe through your stomach instead of your chest By showing a relaxed pose. try to spread out a little. And here are a few ways to do this: λ λ λ λ λ Your eyes concentrate on the person in the conversation When talking to women at a bar. you must display a casual aura around women. position your body so you’re taking up the most amount of space. By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here The good news is can be easily done. Whenever you’re in a public environment. Instead of folding inwards when you’re surrounded by other people. you’re showing that the little things in life don’t phase you. #4 – Be Relaxed A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a relaxed pose in ANY situation. So if you want to demonstrate high status. One of the principles of body language is we tend to be uncomfortable by people who face us directly. #6– Face Away From Women You can tell a LOT to women without opening your mouth. If somebody needs help. you should move slowly and with a measured attitude. the beta male will instantly come running. you should approach her to the side. invade her personal space and make your intentions obvious. As a result. 45 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Instead of showing this inferior personality trait. One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who is ALWAYS ready to do favors for women. they end up displaying “needy” body language. If you walk up to a woman. you DON’T want to make your intentions obvious. you'll reduce her nervousness and tension. And this will help show that you’re not investing too much emotionally in the outcome of the conversation. Now when you’re first talking to women. So instead of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a group).FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here #5– You Move Deliberately Low status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. you'll force people to pay attention to your schedule not theirs. then you’re demonstrating the fact that you’re trying to “pick her up”. Instead of showing that you’re “ready to please” you want to demonstrate that you move on YOUR own terms. The best way to do this is to avoid directly facing a woman. Instead of invading her space on the initial approach. If you can end up side-by-side or at an angle. By taking deliberate actions with every step. you want to put her at ease. then you can easily show an attractive aura.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Your body language provides your first impression to women. 46 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . If you know how to demonstrate high status with it. you’ll be able to show confident and alluring body language around women. By applying the six traits I discussed in this post. and having dilated pupils. The good news is there are specific signs of attraction that are ONLY used by available women. Usually this means that you’ve wasted time that could be spent talking to an AVAILABLE woman. This can include direct eye contact. Many women (who already have boyfriends) display the exact same signs of attraction that single women demonstrate. smiling at you. So when you're looking for women to approach. So it gets frustrating when woman in a committed relationship displays these same signals.Know When She’s Interested When you know when women are attracted to you. What's annoying is we all respond to body language signs that indicate attraction.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #19. Showing the inside of her palms and hands to you. it becomes easy figure out which ones are available. But there is one MAJOR problem when you ONLY rely on indicators of interest. playing with their hair. Positioning her body towards you. it becomes easy to locate a girl who wants to meet a guy. try to identify these signals: λ λ λ A flushed appearance or blushing when you look directly at her. If you know how to identify them. 47 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . it’s pretty frustrating to be in a conversation with a woman who is already taken. you’ll quickly increase your overall dating success. Isolating herself from her friends so you’ll approach her. But if you’re able to decipher her body language and know that she’s single BEFORE you approach. Simply pay attention to the five signs of attraction I discussed in this post. As you probably know.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here λ λ Making attempts to get you to look at her or be noticed by you. Then you’ll discover that there are available women out there who WANT to meet you! 48 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Think of it this way. When a guy immediately hits on a girl. But what exactly does this expression mean and why is it attractive to women? There is a simple reason for cultivating a high status attitude with females. So what does this mean to you? Well it’s simple. you must project a high status personality.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #20. she'll place him in the "Lower Status" category. Because it’s IMPOSSIBLE to date every man who talks to them. If you show that you’re not enamored with her looks (like other guys). Instead QUALIFY her and tease her. most girls have developed simple mechanisms for "weeding out" the losers. then she’ll wonder if you might be an important person. Even if she’s gorgeous.. So if you want to be attractive to women. there are a lot of traits that women find attractive in men. Almost ALL women want to be with the guy who stands out from the crowd. Basically they want guys who are equal to or better then their own social status. Specifically women are incredibly attracted to the guy who acts demonstrates high status (or act likes an alpha male). you must immediately demonstrate a high status personality. 49 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Really attractive women are constantly being "hit on" by guys. This can include BOTH your looks and your personality. Attractive women typically have high status. Whenever you first meet a woman.How to Be the Alpha Male What’s the secret to being attractive to women? Well. don’t give her compliments or show that you’re attracted to her. Therefore most want a guy who is equal or GREATER then their own status.. your personal appearance is a MAJOR factor in attracting women. I think it’s one of the key steps 50 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . When you’re smiling. you're telling a woman these things: 1) You enjoy her company 2) You like what she is saying to you 3) You are an upbeat person with a positive outlook 4) You’re a fun guy As you can see.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #21. smiling is the cornerstone of a great first impression. In fact. you MUST give your best possible smile. you must ensure that you’re doing your best to display an interesting AND unique look. you’ll increase your chances of attracting her. If you smile (and have a positive demeanor) around a woman. So from the FIRST moment you make eye contact with a female. Now the question is.Display a Confident Smile As I emphasize in this ebook. And a huge part of your appearance is displaying a confident smile when you’re talking to a woman. While good looks aren’t mandatory.Why is smiling so effective? Well smiling is effective for many reasons. The truth is the first thing a woman will notice about you is your smile. By smiling at a woman you’ll get her to like you. In a way you've given her a subconscious reason to immediately like you. she’ll probably give you one back. Here’s why… If you study human nature then you know that when people smile at us. we usually return the gesture. So when you smile at a woman. So if you want to increase your success with women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here towards attracting a woman. make sure you’re smiling when talking to them! 51 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . musicians have it easy when it comes to attracting women. All they have to do is get on stage and women will become hypnotically captured by their presence. all a guy needs is a guitar or microphone and he’ll have the pick of ANY woman around him. In fact. Furthermore. What ‘rock stars’ have is the ability to stand out from the crowd. Now you probably think that rock guys attract women because of their fame or money. From Led Zeppelin all the way to a local cover band. But they still manage to attract HORDES of women! So it shows that even the worst musicians have something which girls find incredibly seductive. they’re good at projecting a mysterious image which women eat up! What I find interesting is there are LOTS of musicians who really suck at their craft. these dudes know how to dress AND act in a unique manner. While these guys are ONLY 52 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . And this theory holds true for even the crappiest cover bands at your local bars. From what I’ve seen. some rock guys literally have women beg them for sex. However this isn’t the case. Unlike the average guy.Show Your “Inner Rock Star” One thing I find interesting is how ‘rock stars’ can easily *score* with women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #22. “alpha male” personality. While you don’t have to play an instrument. which makes you stand out. By displaying an outlandish personality around a woman. ALL women want passion and excitement in their lives. But there is something important you should know about being different. women will know that you’re different from other guys. In other words. they’re not afraid to dress differently or demonstrate an outlandish personality. by when you display a positive. The reason is simple. Unlike the average guy.. 53 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . So what can you learn from this? Well it’s simple. (That's probably why romance novels are so successful). they still know how to draw women to them like a magnet. you can learn a lesson from how rock stars act. To be more like them you should do the following: λ λ λ λ λ λ Wear something unique Peacock a little Be energetic and exciting around your friends Talk to everyone Be the life of the party Demonstrate higher value The reason a 'rock star persona' is successful is it helps you stand out from other guys.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here playing the songs from other bands. you'll represent the excitement she's probably missing in her life.. Deep down. In order to be attractive to women you should ONLY do things which are both original AND interesting. Almost all rock stars succeed with women because they know how to stand out from the crowd. An easy way to do this is to observe how other guys act and do the EXACT opposite. how to talk to women and your general attitude. then you’ll be viewed as a unique and attractive guy. the more women will notice you.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here The more you stand out. If you can make them DIFFERENT from other guys. So think of new ways to dress. 54 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . The truth is what we feel inside is always shown on the outside. Since the art of attracting women requires a TON of effort. So it’s only human if you sometimes forget the MAIN reason that you’re on this path. And sometimes it just doesn’t seem worth your time. it can be both stressful and tiresome. you’ll KILL your chances of success. So if you're not having fun when you’re meeting women. then you’ll have LITTLE chance of success.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #23 – Become the Fun Guy It’s happened to ALL us! There are times when the process of meeting women can become tedious. there is LOT involved with trying to learn the subtle art of the pick up artist. And when this happens. then you'll project a bored looking demeanor. But there is something you must always keep in mind… If you’re not having FUN during this whole process. Often a night out can include: λ λ λ λ λ Spending money Having to project a confident and energetic persona at ALL times Approaching dozens of “sets” or groups of women Going out night after night Being rejected by women when you’re approach techniques aren’t working As you can see. 55 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . 56 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . EVEN if you fail. Then trying to meet women won’t seem so tedious. you can check out a new band. have fun with your buddies or simply talk to women because you want to meet a new person.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here What’s the answer? Well it’s simple. Have fun out there. The more you enjoy yourself. For instance. the more you'll project an aura of positive energy and confidence. You must learn to enjoy the whole experience of meeting and attracting women. it helps if you’re enjoying other things BESIDES trying to meet women. when you go out. Also. there will be a moment when the discussion is going really well and she's flirting with you. Normally at this point a LOT of guys will continue to talk and focus on increasing her attraction. set up a date or kiss her). Typically women expect men to make the conversation more intimate (ie: get her number. Then walk away. If you're good at flirting and conversations. casually mention that you'll talk to her later. It works like this… During your conversation. then you stand LITTLE chance of getting her number or setting up a date. you'll be able to create that spark of chemistry. you tell her that you have to back your friends. When you initially talk to a woman. Now instead of taking the conversation to the next level. What you want to do is find a specific time where the conversation could stop or progress to the next level. 57 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . If you can't make her physically interested.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #24. Then as you leave. you'll discover a period where you're getting to know her. try to implement what I like to call the 'Catch and Release' technique. Instead of doing this.The “Catch and Release” Technique Building attraction is absolutely vital when you meet a woman for the first time. and rejoin your friends. Now it's actually fairly easy to approach a woman and create that initial spark. But what you do at this point can MAKE OR BREAK your chances of success. Normally I like to implement the 'Catch and Release' technique in an enclosed environment (bar.) at the beginning of the night. If you have a string of 4-5 conversations that ALL went well. Later in the night. 58 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . the more of a "prize" you'll become. you can approach her again and resume your conversation. She'll wonder why you're not talking to her and will make attempts to get your attention again. the 'Catch and Release' technique will drive her crazy. you can use this technique to increase your chances of getting a number. Since I know I'll probably see her again. club. The harder she has to work. As a result. What's great about this technique is you make HER work for YOUR attention. I like to use it to "work the room".FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here If done correctly. setting up a date or going home with her. she'll try harder to build attraction. etc. Be Proactive Well. Instead actively call her and set up dates. So when I tell you to be persistent. don't listen to your buddies and wait 7 days to call her. If you're waiting around for her to call.Be Persistent. A woman might still have interest EVEN if she's not making the first move. then you might miss out on an opportunity with a great girl. Remember that most women let guys make the first move. I DON'T mean you should stalk every girl you "really like". here's a tip that I'm a little hesitant to discuss. let explain what I mean about persistence. When I talk about this attitude. Now before you go out and start stalking every woman you meet. Nor do I mean you should blow her off every time she wants to hang out because you want to "seem cool". Also it's important to remember that woman have busy lives just like you. I mean that you shouldn't be afraid to follow-up with a woman where there is some chemistry. In other words. So while she might be interested in you. Anyway. So I urge you to read and understand it FULLY before you follow my advice. What this means is it's up to YOU to followup and set up a date. 59 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . there could be outside factors which require her attention. I mean you should make an effort when it comes to pursuing women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #25. the tip is simple! When meeting (and dating) women you have to be PERSISTANT. So remember that persistence is a great attitude. it’ll probably be YOU. you’re in direct competition for her time against her job. I know this sounds harsh. Like persistence. and other guys. you've killed your chances of making a connection to that girl As you can see. This is the point where your persistence must STOP. there’s an equally important trait: Being Proactive. Once this happens you only have yourself to blame. Now once she decides that you’re expendable. By not calling her. being proactive will increase your success with women. When she gets busy. Women. but you should NEVER stalk a woman who has no interest in you. But what’s funny is many guys think playing games is the best way to increase attraction. When you pursue women and immediately 60 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . And since you've just met her. If she doesn't return a number of your calls then she doesn't want to talk to you. The logic is women will be attracted because they're forced to do the pursuing. they follow the advice of waiting 5-7 days before calling a girl. she’ll probably have to ditch something in her life. all your efforts will have been wasted. The problem is this technique RARELY works! Think of it this way. like men. family. Don't be afraid to follow-up with woman and set up dates. After grabbing a woman’s number. get busy with their lives. being proactive is an incredibly important trait to develop. But always remember that there are certain times when it's important to stop pursuing a woman and move on! In addition to persistence. In other words.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Now there's the reverse side of being persistent. Eventually you'll encounter a girl who won't return your calls. If you become a proactive guy.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here make the first call (within 2 days). you'll become the guy who has more women in his life. you’ll have the skills for turning those digits into dates and fun times! 61 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . As a result. You’ll date more and will have more opportunities for finding someone special So ask yourself which guy gets laid more: The guy who waits for women to call first? OR The guy who is proactive and quickly follows up with women? Just remember that getting a phone number is the FIRST step in the dating process. you'll stick out in her mind. your success will dramatically increase. When you develop a proactive personality. This is a mistake! Just because a woman is surrounded by guys.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #26. If you discover that she's single. 62 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Remember this. By doing this. So you’ll often see available women with guys around her. but not too aggressive manner. Whenever you’re out approaching women. I HIGHLY recommend should ALWAYS approach a girl if she's surrounded by guys.Never Fear Other Guys When you’re out meeting women how do you deal with other guys? This is an important question to ask yourself. you can quickly learn if the target woman is dating any of the guys. it doesn’t mean that she isn’t AVAILABLE. you ask questions to the group and find out how they know each other. But they might be her friends instead of her lovers. you’ll DEFINITELY encounter situations where an attractive woman has a few guys with her. If you’re like a lot of guys. In fact. because other men haven’t had the courage to talk to her. So do yourself a favor and don’t DISQUALIFY yourself before even taking a chance and approaching her. then you can quickly move on. Once you use your opener. Usually this type of conversation starter is a way to approach a group in a friendly. What I recommend is to use an opinion opener.ALL girls have a few male friends. you’ll assume one of them is her boyfriend and move on. Because you never know who is available and who isn’t. If you approach and then find out that she’s dating one of the guys. Actually she probably WANTS a have a guy to approach her. then you can transition and isolate her from the group. 63 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here By approaching women surrounded by men. you're taking action which scares other guys. The result is you'll approach LOTS of women who want to have guys talk to them. Which makes it easier to get more numbers and dates. Through a shared experience. Many “seduction gurus” have long understood the importance of using basic psychological principles to make women more attracted. Often it seems hokey or too mechanical to work in the real world. But there’s one NLP I regularly use that can help you increase your overall success with women.Anchor an NLP Memory One of the earliest techniques used within the “seduction community” was implementing Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) to meet women. NLP is a hard concept for many guys to learn. 64 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Ultimately this will get her to think about you when you’re not around. she’ll always think of YOU when she looks at this object. The idea of anchoring is simple.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #27. With anchoring you basically create a fun memory that floods her with positive emotions. and you use it to trigger a positive emotion within a woman. To be honest. You take a neutral item that has NO emotional connection to a woman. Now this concept may seem a little abstract. so let’s talk about an example of how anchoring can be used in your dating life. It’s called “Anchoring”. I start this whole bit about how I thought James Blunt was gay and they should play this song every time somebody acts a little “fruity”. When you meet a woman. While this might seem a bit weird. To this day. It’s that powerful! Here’s an example of how it works: Over a year and a half ago. While I’m normally against doing anything that projects a low status attitude. she’ll laugh and probably join in. In fact. she would start singing “You’re Beautiful” in a high voice whenever somebody started acting a little gay. this technique can be a funny way she can remember you. I bet she still cracks up every time she hears that song. One day I was at a bar talking to a girl. And a great way to do this is to anchor some popular song that she’ll often hear when you’re not around. The point is simple. To anchor this memory. it’s so powerful.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Whenever you meet a woman. it really connected to this girl. And every time I saw her. 65 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you want to stand out in a positive and funny manner. I started singing the song in this high falsetto voice. she’ll think of you WEEKS later when she hears this song. when the song came on. it’s likely that some popular music will be playing in the background. Finally. start singing along with the song…OFF KEY! As long as you’ve already demonstrated high status. The way I anchored that song created a frame of reference that was really powerful. I hung out with her a number of times after that night. there was that dreadful song “You’re Beautiful” by James Blunt. being a nice guy will end up boring a woman to tears! But there’s something to remember about this philosophy. you’ll increase your chances of attracting her. While it’s crucial to not be too nice. Being funny is directly correlated to being perceived as a fun guy. In other words. you must find that sweet spot between being a challenge while not acting TOO arrogant. As a result. Around women.The Importance of Teasing As you learned in a past tip. you MUST display a humorous but slightly teasing attitude. Now a lot of guys get confused about how humor should be used around women. In essence. This is true even if you’re teasing her. Women are NOT attracted to guys who behave in a submissive manner. If you create nicknames for her and not act afraid to make a few jokes at her expense. Basically they're not sure why they should use it or why it's important. While making fun of girl might seem counterproductive. This reasoning is simple. being a nice guy gets you nowhere with women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #28. you say funny things while generally treating a woman like your “bratty little sister”. there are concrete reasons why it works: 66 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . if you can project a humorous attitude. Whenever you talk to a woman. So this presents a unique challenge. women will have fun around you. What’s surprising is the solution is fairly simple. it’s equally important to not come across as an arrogant jerk. teasing a woman can be one of the best ways to build attraction and take an ordinary conversation to the next level. 67 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here 1) You’re demonstrating a high status personality by not acting like the “nice guy” who is concerned with pleasing her 2) You’re showing a sense of humor and a playful attitude 3) You're reversing traditional gender roles by putting HER in the position of the pursuer Teasing a woman can include a lot of things. The key is to use your humor in a manner which makes it seem like you don’t care TOO much about what she thinks of you. you're creating a situation where she’s NOT sure if you’re attracted to her. For instance. give her a nickname or use your body language in a humorous manner. By teasing a woman. you can give do negs. she'll think of you as a challenge and will start to subconsciously prove herself. In the end. As a result. If you think of it as practice and NOT because you’re trying to “pick up” a woman. Some men would prefer being shot at then approach a pretty-looking girl. Sounds crazy. In order to overcome your nervousness. What do I mean? In order to overcome your nervous feelings about talking to women. In a recent radio show. In addition. if you learn to talk to every woman you encounter. you'll find it's pretty easy to approach attractive women. you must learn to initiate conversations as a reflex action. I discussed how to do this) So during each day.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #29. In other words. then you’ll quickly squash any feelings of nervousness. And then you’ll become a master at initiating conversations with women! 68 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you should look for opportunities to talk to women. you must learn to TALK TO WOMEN. right? Well. I heard that many TOUGH guys would rather be in combat then approach a woman. Yes it’s true. But what do you do if you’re like these guys and get REALLY nervous about approaching women? The solution is pretty simple. if the toughest guys in the world feel nervous around women then this emotion MUST be pretty powerful. (In a recent tip. this behavior will become second nature! In the long run. Now there is something I find interesting. If you’re tongue tied and shaky when talking.Talk EVEN When You’re Nervous Being nervous around women can be one of your biggest obstacles in your dating life. you should strike up a conversation with every woman you encounter. you will NOT be attractive to girls. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Always remember that practice always makes perfect. then solution is to keep doing it till it becomes comfortable. 69 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . If you’re nervous about talking to women. it becomes easier to emotionally and physically escalate a conversation. you can learn a lot about their levels of attraction. Then you use this information to determine your next step. women can show MANY signs of attraction. you can use this information to know what kind of “move” to make. For instance. And if can successfully interpret these cues. For instance when a woman finds you attractive. If things aren’t going well.Reading Her Body Language As I discussed in a recent tip. By understanding when a woman is “into” you. you can calibrate and try something else. The best part is you can use a woman’s body language to measure your success. here are a few different cues you can receive from women: 70 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . By being able to pick up one these “attraction signals” you know that whatever you’re doing is working! So to study a woman’s body language. you should identify when you’re getting both a POSITIVE and NEGATIVE reaction. Simply through studying their body language.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #30. she’ll subconsciously move closer and find a reason to touch you. HER body language can tell you a lot about her levels of attraction. If you make it a habit to study her signals.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Positive λ λ λ λ She moves closer to you when you say something interesting She touches you throughout the conversation She teases and jokes with you She maintains eye contact and isn’t distracted by people around her Negative λ λ λ λ She has “closed off” body language during the conversation Her eyes wander throughout the room She answers your questions with one word answers She engages other people in conversation and ignores your questions As I mentioned before. then act accordingly you’ll increase your chance of picking her up! 71 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . If you set goals for EACH approach. I’m able to easily achieve it. By doing this.Know Your Outcomes One of the reasons I succeed in a lot of things in my life is because I know the power of setting goals.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #31. you have to set a goal EACH time before you approach a woman. For instance. you should decide what goal you’re shooting for. By establishing a CLEAR cut understanding of what I want. Then clearly think of a mental map of how you can achieve this outcome. when you’re meeting a woman for the first time. Create a mental picture of what you want. 72 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . before each conversation you should ask yourself: λ λ λ λ λ Do I want her number? Am I looking for a girlfriend? Do I want to sleep with her tonight? Should I go for the date? Am I approaching only to have a conversation? By establishing a goal for each conversation. you can steer the conversation towards obtaining it. you’ll increase your chances of getting it! So to make this work. you must specifically DEFINE it! And this could also be said about meeting women! If you want to be successful with women. you should define the outcomes that you want. Now there is one important thing to remember about setting goals. In order to achieve an outcome. In other words. you can adjust the way you talk and who you approach. then you should demonstrate higher status. In other words. you want to show the basic character traits of an interesting guy that woman would want to date. Just remember that establishing outcomes for EACH conversation can help you achieve it. On the other hand.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here For instance. if you want a girlfriend. if you’re looking for a “one night stand”. then you should focus on approaching an easy target and going heavy on the flirting/sexual innuendos. You’ll discover that mentally creating a clear picture of your approach techniques can do wonders for getting what you want! 73 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . So if you want to be perceived as a LEADER when you’re around women. I discovered the value of authority when I was recently reading a book on human psychology. the most *desired* girls in your high school probably dated the popular athletes. 74 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . What makes these men stand out from the crowd? Well. For instance you can demonstrate high levels of authority in the stories you tell. then you NEED to work on them. women will believe in you! The truth is being an authority means having complete confidence in yourself! This means if you’re having “innergame” issues. The guys who are most successful at attracting women are usually able to demonstrate high levels of authority. By showing that they’re the “leader of the pack”. it’s simple. these men are able exude extreme levels of authority. And in the “real world”. What I discovered was how people tend to believe ALMOST any statement if you say it with complete confidence.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #32. For instance. As long as you believe in yourself.Speak with Authority Women are naturally drawn to leaders! You can see evidence of this in almost every social situation. the openers you use and the body language you display. then you have to start TALKING like one. There are a few simple ways you can do this. attractive women are usually drawn to guys with powerful jobs. But if you identify your problem areas and constantly WORK on them. 75 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . then you’ll only end up displaying an anxious persona. If you’re nervous around women. you can easily transform yourself into a guy who naturally displays an authoritative attitude.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Just remember that leaders are guys who believe in themselves. there will be moments in a conversation where you can't think of anything to say. The good news is there is a way to completely CAPTIVATE her attention during a conversation. And you can do the same! By telling her entertaining stories. Think about it… There have been times when you've been completely captivated by a person because he or she was able to tell a really interesting story. In order to tell a good story you have to first think of 76 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . It's human nature to LOVE STORIES. then your mind suddenly goes blank and you can't have anything to talk about. All you have to do is utilize the power of storytelling. you can say goodbye to any chance you have to attract this woman. with you as the central character.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #33. you'll completely captivate her attention. Once this happens.Know How to Tell a Story If you're like other guys. What sucks is you could be talking to a great woman. This is especially true when you know the story cold. I promise you'll like the reactions you get from women. 77 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here different incidents and scenarios which a woman will find both interesting and entertaining. Now you might think is you should use a different story every time you talk to a new woman. Since this happened MANY years ago. For instance one story I often use when I meet a woman is about the time I was running and almost got hit by Bruce Springsteen when he was driving his car. I craft the story in a humorous way with him giving me the finger and my reaction. Then practice telling these stories around people. Although you might know the story by heart. learn to tell it to every new woman you meet. it'll be entertaining to any new woman you've just met. The important thing is to get to the point where you can tell this story as a reflex. I've had a lot of experience telling it and making it really entertaining. But that's not what you should do… If you have a good enough story. Just sit down and craft a bunch of interesting stories. YOU can also entertain women with your stories. Then practice telling them every time you meet a woman. Perhaps even more! However most don’t want to be regarded as promiscuous or “easy”. so they generally avoid this topic.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #34. Instead they create a conversation that is similar to a boring job interview. 78 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . This means that when you first meet a woman. or what she does during her free time. women WANT some excitement. background.Use Sexual Innuendos When it comes to dating. Unfortunately. this isn’t what they usually get from guys. In essence. they’re terrified to talk about SEX! Now I understand that you might be one of those guys who is worried about offending a woman. But if you want to build sexual tension. What I find interesting is women think about sex as much as us. The good news is you can EASILY tap into a woman’s inclination to discuss sex if YOU have the courage to bring it up! By discussing the topic in a “non-creepy” manner. you shouldn’t shy away from joking about sex or using a few sexual innuendos. then you MUST bring up this topic EARLY in a conversation. In an effort to not “offend” a girl. A major mistake that men make when they first meet a woman is to discuss “safe topics”. most guys will only discuss things like her work. The problem is these topics do NOTHING to build rapport or attraction. 79 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . The key here is to bring up the topic in a way that is not lewd. you’ll be perceived as a sexually confident guy. Just remember that you WANT a woman to think of you as a potential dating partner. And this will help increase your chances of “getting physical” with the women you meet. If you do this correctly. you can steer a conversation towards the topic of sex. then get her feedback about similar incidences in her own life. By introducing the topic into a conversation early on.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here you can joke about the topic while NOT making her uncomfortable. What I found to work best is to tell a story related to “one of your friends”. Simply discuss a humorous incident. while maintaining her levels of comfort. Know How to Build Rapport As I’ve discussed throughout this site. When it occurs. set up a date or even go home with her. If she trusts you and feels a CONNECTION. then you’ll increase her levels of attraction. And this can often lead to an intimate experience. it becomes easy to get her number. attraction isn’t about a smooth opener and five minutes of conversation. When you establish rapport with a woman. rapport is being “in sync” with her and sharing heightened levels of attraction. here are some ways YOU can build rapport with women: λ λ λ λ λ λ Discuss common interests and hobbies Establish physical contact Tease and neg in a playful manner Discuss interesting stories which demonstrate higher value Do future “future adventures” and talk about the fun things you COULD do together Look for her “Indicators of Interest” and escalate the conversation from this information 80 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . So obviously rapport is something that MUST be built during the comfort stage of a conversation. For instance. Rapport can be created by doing a few different things. It’s about creating that spark of chemistry. you can quickly build her levels of trust.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #35. All of this is called "rapport" What is rapport? When it comes to women. building comfort then moving to a private location. Then once she becomes comfortable. you’ll discover it’s easier to escalate her levels of physical attraction. you must move into the rapport building stage. 81 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here So after you’ve been talking to woman for awhile. The WRONG Way To Ask The worst way to ask a woman on a date is to be unclear about your plans. then the date itself should sound intriguing. women want a guy who is confident and 82 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . a wrong way to request a date would sound like this: “I enjoyed talking to you. This is where you conclude the conversation with a weak statement that doesn’t build interest OR excitement. But if you phrase it badly. If you want to her to go out with you. As you probably know.How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date There is a right and wrong way to ask a girl out on date. let’s review the WRONG way to phrase your date request. you’ll seem weak and low status. But before we get to that. Furthermore. For instance. when you give an ambiguous date request you do nothing to indicate your high status.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #36. you can easily land a date. That’s why it’s important to know HOW to ask a girl out. Would you like to go out sometime?” The reason this doesn't work is it does nothing to make her interested about going on a date. Done correctly. Then make sure you do this every time you meet a woman. you mentioned you like live music. In addition. For instance. you see if she wants to join with an activity that you enjoy. If you follow my advice after building attraction. A group of us are checking out that ____ band at ____ on ____. Instead of presenting her with a formal date request. 83 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Also. rapport and comfort. she’ll naturally feel excited about joining you. Then as the initial conversation comes to a conclusion. So a great way to ask a girl out would to talk about your exciting life and the things you enjoy. When you’re unclear about your date request. It should be an awesome time. place and the activity. you’ll demonstrate low self esteem.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here takes initiative. you’re casually inviting her into an exciting part of YOUR world. the date request should be an extension of your lifestyle. This can include the day/time. you should EASILY conclude the conversation with a phone number and date plan. you can ask a girl out like this: “Hey. You should tag along! Here let me get your number!” This is an excellent way to ask a girl on a date because it gives ALL the necessary information without seeming too needy. Now let’s move on to a correct way to ask for a date… The RIGHT Way to Ask When you ask a woman out there should indicator of exactly what’s going to happen. if you state this with a high level of energy and status. I think the ENTIRE process of seduction can be boiled down to a few easy steps. then you’ll do better then 99% of the other guys who only look for “quick-fix” solutions. there is almost TOO much information out there.Five Steps For Seduction Seduction can be a confusing concept for many guys. 84 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . with the large amount of “seduction material” the average guy can learn a lot about various “pick up tricks”. But in all likelihood. he’ll fail to understand the PHILOSOPHY behind each technique. Because this is a topic covered by MANY sites. What’s the end result? Well. If you understand the point behind each step. What these guys understand is the importance of having the right mindset before approaching women. Frankly. So here is MY five-step formula for how seduction works: #1– Mental Game The most “seductive” men are the guys who overcome the problems with their confidence and self limiting beliefs.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Seduction Tip #37. It’s about displaying a high status personality while attracting her interest. a big mistake you could make with a woman is to demonstrate YOUR attraction before she displays her. There are many routines and techniques you can use to make this happen. That’s why it’s important to use a neutral opener that doesn’t indicate your interest. In order to be seductive to women. And this attraction is established within the first few minutes of meeting a guy. In fact.Approaching Women Approaching women isn’t about using some cheesy pick up line. MOST of the content you’ll find on “seduction websites” focuses on creating that spark of attraction. By NOT displaying signs of interest on your approach. Most women want guys who are high status. you’ll attract her attention without triggering her natural inclination to be wary of new guys talking to her. And this helps to reinforce a confident. you must practice displaying an attractive personality.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here I think that most men fail to realize the importance of their mind when it comes to meeting women. Once you approach a woman. yet mysterious persona. #2. #3– Make Her Attracted You CAN’T have seduction unless she’s attracted to you. 85 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . As I stated before. you need to focus on creating attraction. Basically the idea of giving (then taking way) your attraction is to create sexual tension. This is what flirting is all about. One minute you’re showing signs of interest. And during the 86 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing .FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here For now. When you first start talking to a woman. you should “push and pull” the interaction. you must be communicating a sexually confident aura. all you need to know is the importance of creating attraction. #5. the next you’re pushing her away and teasing her in a funny manner. seduction is something that should be happening from the moment you meet a woman. you can demonstrate your own signs of attraction. Basically these are routines where you subtly get a woman to sell herself. she’ll demonstrate specific Indicators of Interest. And if she gives you the responses that YOU look for. Seduction is about recognizing her attraction signals and responding with the appropriate response. she must know that you like her for who SHE is rather then her appearance. #4. Once you detect these flirting signals.The Seduction While this is the last step listed.Show Your Attraction In order for a woman to become emotionally invested in a guy. As a woman becomes attracted to you. In addition.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here later stages of interaction. it becomes that much easier to improve your success with women. When you understand WHY you should learn a specific technique. (That’s why I’ve devoted a whole site to this topic). Obviously there is a lot more to learn about this process. it’s important to understand the idea behind this system. 87 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . it’s also about being the guy who is confident enough the control each level of progression. kiss her and THEN progress towards “closing the deal”. seduction is about knowing how to physically escalate. So there you have it! The ENTIRE process of seduction summarized into a few steps. However. A woman’s desire for you starts WAY before you’ve even met her. you can work on a REAL way to create sexual chemistry. dark and handsome”. you’ve probably heard this term. Every girl has her own particular taste in a guy. Then once you know you’re “looking your best”. If you’re able to create sexual chemistry. ugly. then you won’t initially create sexual tension if you’re a short. As a result. then you have a virtual lock on getting her into the bedroom. albino dude. a woman develops her tastes for what she specifically likes in a guy. So if she is attracted to somebody who is “tall.Create Great Sexual Chemistry Sexual Chemistry At some point in your life. During her formative years. it’s important to fix what you can and display a top-notch personal appearance.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #38. 88 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . this phrase represents the holy grail of all interactions with a woman. You can’t control it and you won’t know what she likes until you approach her. But how do you create it? Well. there’s a simple truth about sexual chemistry. For a lot of guys. Only by taking things to a physical level. In other words.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here While looks are initially important to a woman. The important thing to remember is that a conversation NEEDS tension. you want to help a woman understand that the ONLY way to eliminate this tension is to take things to a physical level. with sexual tension. At some point. you’re NOT providing a way to resolve the tension that you’ve built. 89 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you should understand that deep down inside women want a guy who presents a challenge. In order to trigger her “attraction switches”. a woman feels excited and has conflicting feelings. will she resolve the tension that’s been built. you can still create a spark of attraction if you understand the principle of SEXUAL TENSION. Now there is an important reason for creating this tension. A conversation should involve subtle techniques for pushing a woman away THEN pulling her in. Attractive women are used to guys acting like nice guys and kissing their asses. Then you’re pushing her away and teasing the hell out of her. And that’s what you’re doing when you create sexual tension. By giving her mixed signals about YOUR attraction. One minute you’re touching her and providing a pleasurable experience. but isn’t quite sure. She thinks you might be attracted to her. 90 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you should focus on creating enough tension that’ll increase her levels of attraction. Then sit back and watch as she works hard for your attention. Whenever you meet a woman.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Remember that sexual chemistry is an important ingredient to a conversation. Don’t call attention to it or allow your touch to linger. What’s important about physical contact is it should be established in the first few minutes of a conversation. 91 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . The important thing is act casual about this action. it’ll become easy to transition into kissing her and leading things towards sex.Five Ways to Initiate Physical Contact If you want an interaction with a woman to lead to sex. Here are five ways to do it: Touch Her to Emphasize a Point During the first few minutes of a conversation.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #39. All you need to do is lightly touch her arm or shoulder in a normal. nonaggressive manner. Just make it seem like a normal extension of your demeanor. you MUST establish physical contact! The simple truth is a girl won’t want to be intimate unless you first make her comfortable with your touch. the touch barrier can be broken by emphasizing a point. An easy way to initiate contact is to do it in a natural manner. The problem is you have to do it without being perceived as “the creepy guy”. And once she’s grown used to your contact. So “playing games” with a woman can help you demonstrate humor while breaking the touch barrier. You can touch the sensitive parts of a woman’s hands while demonstrating a skill. this routine generally involves being a sarcastic in a playful manner. When you’re first talking to a woman. Cocky/Funny Routines Cocky/funny is a great way to show a humorous AND slightly arrogant women. The technique is pretty simple. 92 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . it’ll be easy to touch her. they’re also incredibly useful for touching a woman. For instance. This will show that you’re not trying to grope her. Then after demonstrating this skill. you want to do specific things that'll require touching her. the slap game or drawing on her arm. For instance. However. Play Games with Her Playfulness is an important part of ALL conversations. As long as you act playful while doing these games. a palm reading test requires hand-to-hand contact. you should give her hands back. A term coined by David DeAngelo. One of things that women want in a guy is a great sense of humor.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Do a Personality Test Personality tests are great for building attraction and demonstrating higher value. you could initiate games like thumb/arm wrestling. Also if you're walking together. you playfully walk her into objects. physical contact must be established within the first few minutes of meeting a woman. As long as she recognizes that you’re playing around. 93 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you can easily establish physical contact while showing chivalrous side of you. she’ll love your cocky/funny routines. or give her “bump hip check” when you walk by her. Do Chivalrous Things If you're walking together somewhere. For instance you could do these things: λ λ λ Open a door and lead her in with your hand on her lower back Offer your arm as you're walking into a place When you're walking through a crowd of people. shove her lightly on her shoulder when you're joking around. you’ll be able to break this barrier in a simple yet effective manner. be the first to go through it and offer your hand to guide her through As I stated at the beginning of this post.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here One way to use cocky/funny is to establish physical contact. For instance you can give her a quick high five. If you implement the five tips I discussed in this article. I generally mean the FIRST time you hang out with a girl after getting her number/email. A “first date” can simply involve hanging out in a casual environment. you do NOT have to bring her to some fancy restaurant or follow “traditional” dating rules. guys commonly request help in this area. MOST ‘seduction gurus’ recommend that you ALWAYS go for a kiss on the first date.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #40. I receive a LOT of email from guys needing help in their dating lives. let’s move on to the kissing… From what I’ve seen. In fact. And one of the MOST common questions I receive is “Should I go for a kiss on the first date?” Well instead of answering every email. according to Google. So when I talk about the first date. 94 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Actually I ENCOURAGE you to keep things lighthearted when you’re meeting a woman for the first time. Now that I’ve clarified what I mean by the first date. First off. I decided to use this tip to specifically answer this question. After you meet a woman.Kiss on the First Date??? Every day. I personally think guys place WAY too much emphasis on the ‘first date’. But I want to clear the air about the first date. Honestly I believe there’s no such thing as the perfect moment. go for the kiss! If you read her signs correctly. So when’s the right moment? Well traditionally. you know she wants to be kissed.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Unfortunately I disagree. It shouldn’t be done at the end of a date or during “the perfect moment”. What I recommend is to look for Indicators of Interest that provide signals of her levels of attraction. Instead. there are small opportunities which you must seize upon! So if you know she’s attracted. Part of dating or “hanging out” with a woman is to see if there is GENUINE attraction between the two of you. I believe that you should try to initiate kissing ONLY if there is mutual interest. this will only create an awkward situation. If you try to force a kiss. then I guarantee you won’t be rejected! 95 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! You should initiate kissing ANYTIME you think she’s ready. it’s recommended that you wait till the END of the date. When you receive at least 3 or 4 of these signs. What’s the solution? To be honest.Change Your Actions There’s something you probably never realized… The reason that you’re friends (and not intimate) with this girl is DIRECTLY related to the things that you did when 96 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . You can’t stop thinking of her and she’s everything you want from a woman. In this tip. The problem is she ONLY considers you to be a friend.Turn Your Friend Into Your Girlfriend Do this sound like you… There is a female friend in your life who you secretly desire.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #41. they can’t figure out how to get her. Well if this sounds familiar. then you’re not alone! Probably the most common problem I hear about from men is how they secretly want a SPECIFIC woman. this is one of those situations where that’s EXTREMELY difficult to change! And the only way to do it is to take drastic measures. But. we’re going to cover my three-step plan for turning that friend into a lover… Step #1. Transform Yourself Now that we’ve removed yourself from her immediate radar. Whereas you were 97 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you’re going to work on becoming the kind of person she would find sexually enticing. NOT as a sexual being. you made her look at you like a buddy. For instance. it’s necessary to have her completely change the way she thinks of you. you need to “shake things up” a bit! This means ELIMINATING the specific actions that initially pushed you into the ‘friends zone’. Don’t completely blow her off. here are a few things you need to STOP doing immediately: λ λ λ λ λ Calling her all the time Listening to her talk about her guy problems Taking her on ‘pseudo’ dates Putting her needs in front of yours Being the shoulder she can always cry on You might think this is a bit drastic. What I suggest is to simply become “really busy” in your life. The key is to do these things without coming across as a complete asshole. So. In order change her opinion. but remember we’re trying to completely shift the nature of your relationship. but let her know that you need to take care of some things for awhile.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here you first met her. Which brings us to the next phase of this plan… Step #2. As your relationship developed. This leads us to the next (and final) phase… Step #3. This means creating an attractive lifestyle where she can’t help but be drawn to you! First. you’ll now become someone who she WANTS to date. (Hopefully you’ll have a lot of stories that’ll pique her interest). Now once you’re on the phone.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here once her “emotional tampon”. this will make her feel just a *little* jealous. even months. there might be someone who is MUCH better than this girl. Finally after a few weeks. you should start hanging out with more women. For all you know. Perhaps she might even be as great as you once thought! Next. you want to vaguely mention a few of the women that are in your life. I’ve found that an infatuation with a particular woman often stems from not having a lot going on with your life. just casually mention a few new “friends” that you now have.Sealing the Deal 98 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you’ll start to gain a broader perspective on this particular woman. you want to reconnect with your female friend. start doing stuff that makes YOU happy. This is another action that’ll give an idea of what else is out there. Trust me. Furthermore. By engaging in activities that are fun. Don’t brag. Call her up and talk about some of the things that you’ve done with yourself. make a suggestion to “hang out” sometime. For instance. you want to focus on creating SEXUAL TENSION. And since she is already having fun. These actions are critical because you want her to see you in a completely new light. watching an exciting athletic game. you can bring to places like an amusement park. dancing. All of these ideas are great for getting her to move around and arousing the emotional side of her brain. things will naturally evolve into a more “intimate” relationship. engaging in a sport. Rather than being the predictable. sexless man she once knew. Now when you’re with her. You want to bring her somewhere where you she’ll connect the positive feelings to being around you. This means flirting. So forget all thoughts of a boring activity like a dinner or movie! Instead you want to bring her somewhere that’ll elevate her mood and make her feel excited! Remember FUN is directly connected to AROUSAL. working out. she’s not going to be in a position where she worries about “ruining your friendship”. And at this point.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here The key to a successful meeting (or date) is to do something that’ll connect to the emotional (not logical) side of her brain. She’ll no longer see you as a friend. doing something risky/dangerous. You’ll be the exciting guy who can elevate her positive emotions. 99 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . or going to a fun concert. you’re acting like a potential lover. playfully touching her and having fun. exercising. teasing her. you’re subtly altering her opinion of you in a way that’s connecting to her emotional states instead of her logic.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here This three-step plan is incredibly effective because it avoids the awkward conversation that some guys feel is the “only” way to change the nature of a relationship. 100 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Rather than forcing her to make a decision. you can use a social job to freely flirt with women. When you work at one of these jobs. which can increase your chances of meeting and attracting a woman. bouncer. Since a lot of these positions require a certain level of sarcasm and humor. In fact. I think working a few hours each week in a social industry is an incredible way you can meet attractive women. doctors or architects. The plain truth is women are attracted to guys with confidence and leaders.Part-Time Jobs For Attracting Women We all know that women are attracted to "power people" like lawyers. you should still think about working a few hours in one of these professions. In addition to attracting women. you'll display the same characteristics which will attract women. when you work at a "social job". you can flirt in a confident manner without women being aware that you're trying to pick them up. Due to the social nature of this environment. But there are a few part-time jobs.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Lifestyle Tip #42. that anyone can do. Furthermore. or a waiter. Typically these jobs include being a bartender. DJ. Here's what I mean… There are a number of occupations where you can work part-time and meet women in a social situation. Now even if you already have a full-time job. you're encountering women when they're relaxed and want to have fun. 101 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . women will be engaging YOU in conversations. you'll be regarded as an authority figure. When you 're working at these jobs. For instance. I've found that it's really easy to attract and engage women in conversations. You'll probably discover that you're chances of meeting and attracting women will dramatically increase. 102 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . whenever a good-looking woman requests a certain song.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here From my personal experience as a DJ. it's really simple to build rapport and attraction. then you might want to look into working part time at a social job. I'm able to stand out from other guys and have them APPROACH ME. Since they often look at my job as an "authority figure". In fact by working at different bars. So if you're having trouble with meeting women. I use this opportunity to tease her and engage her in a conversation. Since she probably has a lot of things happening in her life. I was recently rereading one of my favorite books where the author discussed how being a "busy guy" can help you build attraction with women you know. a lot of things can draw her attention away from you. In a way you're displaying higher value by letting her know that you're not a guy who sits around the house nervously waiting for her call. Now the truth is MANY guys are terrible at following up with women after getting a phone number or email address. If you display "Alpha Male" traits.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #43. As I mentioned before. by acting like a busy guy. So it's important to reestablish that connect and make her interested in you. Generally what happens is the attraction they built during the initial meeting falls flat and they can't set up a date. Between the period between meeting a woman and contacting her. And the best way to do this is to act like a busy guy. For instance. she'll subconsciously think you might be dating other women. So it's important to demonstrate specific qualities which women want from men. women are extremely attracted to men who have exciting and interesting lives. What he said was girls are naturally attracted to men who have interesting things going on. she'll work hard *make an impression* the next time you meet. If this woman thinks she has a bit of competition. So she'll be more attracted to you if you can demonstrate that you have a lot going on in your life. Now to act like a busy guy. Also. you have to find a way to stand out in her mind.Become the Busy Guy There are many characteristics of what women find attractive in a man. you need to do the following… 103 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you'll show women that you're a fun and interesting guy. but make it sound interesting. but "things have been crazy" in your life. but you're willing to let her be part of it. Finally once you go on the date. let her know that you have a lot happening during the week.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here When you initially call her. Emphasize that you want to see her again. mention all the activities that you do. Then you tell her that you want to make definite plans on a specific day. If you can demonstrate that you have an active life you'll discover that women will find more attractive. 104 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . cut the conversation short and tell her you have a lot of things to get done. After you make plans (ie: set up a date). let her know that you have a busy life. In other works. Be vague about what you're doing. Furthermore by having more female buddies. an increase in the quantity of friends will provide an excellent opportunity to do new and exciting things. By making new friends and contacts. All you have to do is make a concerted effort to improve your social life. you'll increase your opportunities for meeting interesting women. you'll develop platonic relationships with lots of women. you'll have an opportunity to be set up with their attractive friends. especially females. By having a better social life. 105 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . The truth is there is another way you can meet women without feeling the need to frequent crowded bars. your options for dating women will dramatically increase. If you've familiar with the psychology of women.Increase Your Social Circle Many guys have the erroneous belief that meeting women ALWAYS involves going to a specific location and approaching strangers. you could have an opportunity to meet and date their friends. then you know that they love to play the role of matchmaker with their single friends. When you try to make friends with more people. Now the truth is a lot of women are attracted to guys who have an active social life. The solution is simple. In addition. Then over time.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #44. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Since you have "personal recommendation" from your women friends. But even if your female friends won't set you up with women they know. She probably has a few cute friends that you can meet later on. And by creating a good social life. you'll see a dramatic increase in invitations to these events. 106 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . it'll be a lot easier to break the ice with their friends. you can still meet their friends at social activities like a party or happy hour. make it a point to befriend her. So remember this… In order to increase your chances of meeting more women. Unlike approaching a woman at a bar. Even if you know you're not attracted to a woman. it's important to get a healthy social life. these women won't be so wary about you talking to them. If you look and feel good. Since women are more in tune with their sense of smell. Now what I've discovered is that it's important to display a top-notch appearance. But the question is: Should you buy ANY cologne that you see? The answer is no! Because some fragrances "disagree" with many females. it's important to wear cologne that women love.Wear the Right Cologne If there is one lesson I've learned well as a guy. then you'll kill your chances of attracting them. you'll discover that it'll help your ability to attract women. By spraying on a fragrance. It's well known that women prefer guys who wear a nice cologne.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #45. then you'll increase your overall success with women. If you're not careful with what you buy you run the risk of turning off the same woman you're trying to attract. you should always remember to apply a quality fragrance before you go out. And as part of your overall looks. 107 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . So if you make a bad first impression. it's important to do research and find out what cologne women like best. it is this: women will make an instant judgment on you from the moment you approach them. then take a look at some of the colognes that I know women prefer: λ λ λ λ λ Le Male by Jean Paul Gaultier Hugo Boss Curve for Men Versace Blue Jeans by Gianni Versace Contradiction by Calvin Klein Being able to attract women often comes down to many elements. you'll improve your overall chances of success. Try asking them which colognes they like best on their boyfriends. But if you take the time to wear a nice cologne.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here As a result. But if you don't have time to go fragrance shopping. Then buy the one which has the highest recommendation. The two of you should go your local mall and do some research. 108 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Another trick is to get the opinions from the women who work at the cologne counter. it's important to find out what cologne do women prefer! One solution is to grab a female friend and have her help you out. Try different fragrances and get her opinion on which ones smell the best. Here are a few ways to dramatically improve your personal appearance: 1) Smile Every Time You Meet a Woman If done properly. you still need to present an appearance which is attractive. In addition to smiling it's equally important to have display a mouth which is free from stains or bad breath. While I think you have the ability to attract women.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #46. 2) Wear Fashionable Clothes 109 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Furthermore liberally use breath mints and gum.Why Appearance DOES Matter Perhaps the question I get asked the most about women is if you need looks or money to attract women. let me explain. While you don't have to be good looking to be desired by women. Confused by this statement? If so. My response to this question is ALWAYS a resounding NO! But there is one MAJOR catch to this statement. So remember to brush and floss twice a day. your smile can be your SECRET WEAPON for attracting women. Now the trick is to learn how to smile as a reflex every time you approach a woman. you still need to have a top-notch personal appearance. I mean you should do everything to look your BEST. In other words. take the time to practice it. And when I talk about appearance. the clothes you wear and how you display your body language will have a direct impact on your success rate. If you don't have a natural smile. it's extremely critical to have proper hygiene. Simple take the time to find which items look best on YOU and you'll make a dramatic improvement. you should spend a little extra on a few items which look REALLY good. If you look like a slob. 3) Have Great Hygiene Like your smile. Just remember that your personal appearance is the first thing a woman will see. This means shaving. The key to improving your wardrobe is to purchase some clothes which match today's latest fashion.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here If you want to meet attractive women. you have to be willing to wear fashionable clothes. In order to be like them. So make sure you present yourself in the best possible light. getting a haircut and showering regularly. you must look your best. 110 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . you'll end up attracting slobbish women. The guys who are really successful know that attractive women go for confident and sharp looking men. So you might have to make a few financial sacrifices if you want clothes which will impress girls. putting on deodorant. While you don't have to go out and buy a whole new wardrobe. In essence. In other words.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #47. Typically they make the poor choice of looking for a SPECIFIC type of woman in places where she won't be. if you want a "spiritual church girl". Typically these guys think there is some magical place they can go to meet the woman of their dreams. homebody type of woman. Here's what I mean… Let's just say you decided one day that you want to hunt for dear. You can take this analogy and apply this to a lot of guys. But the first place they look is their local bar.Know Where to Meet Women That's a common question I get from a lot of guys. The truth is the best way to find the right kind of woman is to go where she hangs out. Now I'm not saying nice girls don't hang out at bars and clubs. then you should put on your "Sunday's Best" and head over to a church. For instance. But statistically speaking. you must be proactive and go to the places where she goes. Would you grab a boat and go into the middle of a river? Probably not! If you were smart. they're hunting for a deer in the middle of a river! If you're serious about trying to find a specific type of girl. some men want a sweet. you would grab some camouflage and go into the woods. you'll probably encounter 111 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . sit down and form an image of your PERFECT girl. Then all you have to do start frequenting the same spots where you'll likely encounter her. intellectual women Business and professional women Athletic girls Spiritual women Alternative and extreme lifestyle girls If you're able to define your ideal woman. For instance. Usually settling down is the farthest from their minds. [Also. being able to meet a woman involves improving your dating skills. 112 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . To get started. here are a few types of women: λ λ λ λ λ λ Party girls Bookish. Then decide on the best places where she would hang out. it becomes that much easier to envision the places where she goes.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here girls who like to party and have a good time. To overcome one-itis. Unfortunately. In fact the expression "Oneitis" comes from an inability to stop thinking about a specific girl in your life. In other words. The reason is when your thoughts are consumed by thoughts of a single girl. In fact.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #48. When you increase your “female social circle”. make it a point to include LOTS of women in your life. you'll be incredibly disappointed when she repeatedly spurns your attention. you should shift focus.Stop Thinking About “The One” When it comes to dating. By filling your life with women you’ll receive FIVE major benefits: 1) You'll stop obsessing over that one woman you can't have 2) You'll have more opportunities to attend fun social events 3) You'll discover your “object of affection” is NOT that special 113 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . Instead of being obsessed over her. you'll dramatically improve your lifestyle. a BAD case of oneitis has a devastating effect on your ability to meet women. a guy tends to have strong feelings for a woman who does NOT return these feelings. my advice is simple. With oneitis. start dating OTHER women and try to make new female friends. it's dangerous to develop an obsession.STOP obsessing over her! If you're hung up on one particular woman. it becomes to TOO easy to avoid other women. then it might be time to take massive action. I guarantee you'll quickly forget about this girl. So if you're struggling with obsessive feelings over one particular girl. 114 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . But you can easily overcome it if you include more women in your life.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here 4) You'll become more HIGH STATUS because people will see that you're surrounded by interesting women 5) You'll demonstrate to this one woman that she's EASILY replaceable Oneitis is something which can plague the best of us. Simply try to date other women and make new female friends. FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #49- Always Groom Yourself Do you like when women scream and run away from you? Well if you're like most guys this is the last thing you want. But it's a real possibility if you're not taking care of your grooming habits. Here's what I mean… In almost every social situation, I've noticed there is that ONE guy who tries hard to attract women, but doesn't take the time to work on his grooming habits. What he doesn't realize is poor hygiene turns off women instead of attracting them. By NOT taking a half hour each day for grooming, he's eliminating his chances of success. Now on this website, I work hard to provide great information for being attractive to women. It's my hope that I provide enough free information to help you overcome bad looks, social awkwardness or a lack of confidence. However there is NOTHING I can do to help you if you don't take the time to work on your hygiene. What's frustrating is having good personal hygiene is the one area in which you have COMPLETE control. Yet I see a number of guys who don't make an effort in this area of their lives. So if you want to ensure a top-notch appearance you should do the following EACH time before you go out to meet women: λ λ λ λ λ λ 115 Shower (Using an ample amount of soap, shampoo, and conditioner) Clean your ears out with Q-Tips Shave or trim your facial hair Apply deodorant Brush your teeth and use dental floss Apply a popular cologne Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here λ λ Trim any nose, eyebrow or ear hair you have Dress in a neat manner While these grooming tips may seem like common sense, a lot of guys seem to forget the importance of taking care of their appearance. Just remember that NO tip or technique will work if you have a lousy appearance or poor hygiene. As I always say: "If you look like a slob, you'll attract slobbish women!" Ultimately if you want to maximize your ability to attract women, simply spend a little time each day and remember to groom yourself! 116 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Tip #50- Create a Unique Look As you probably know, you don’t NEED good looks to be attractive to women. As long as you have an interesting personality and know how to develop physical chemistry, then you won’t have to look like a male model. But there’s one REALLY important exception to this statement. In a previous tip, I discussed how your personal appearance is VERY important. While women don't need to be with guys with great looks, you’ll still increase your success if you demonstrate an interesting appearance. What do I mean by this? Well, no matter what you look like, you can increase your success with women by creating a unique look. For instance, Neil Strauss (or Style), the renowned [PUA] who wrote ‘The Game’, created an interesting appearance that attracts women. A few years ago, Style was a self-proclaimed short, balding, skinny guy with a large nose. But with the help of Mystery, he transformed himself into a stylish person with a shaved head and unique facial hair. In essence, Style went from average looking to a guy with a unique look. This helped improve his confidence and increase his success with women. And you can do the same! No matter what you look like, you can dramatically improve your appearance and create an interesting look that’ll drive women crazy! Whether it's the way you dress or how you wear your haircut, there is probably something about your appearance that can be improved. By creating an 117 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here interesting look. you’ll stand out from other guys and become more attractive. 118 Attraction Mastery © Distinct Advantage Marketing . ANY time. Now most of these techniques are used for women you’ve never met before. After implementing the techniques described here. BUT.FREE Black Book: How to Approach with NO Fear of Rejection Click Here Conclusion Well I hope you enjoyed the 50 tips included in this ebook! Just remember that dating women comes down the simple process of knowing how to approach and attraction. you’ll have the confidence to approach ANY woman. I’ve found that you can apply some of them to attract that one girl who has never shown you interest before! There is a lot more to learn about getting women in addition to what I just discussed. 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